Waking up with worry

[Anonymous]

I woke up with complete anxiety. I had a conversation with my bf about a female friend that he has that makes me feel uncomfortable. He asks if I were jealous because of their friendship. She has done some questionable things and I just can’t seem to get over the fact how uncomfortable she made me feel last weekend at a dinner. I trust my bf and we are both Christian’s who believe Jesus died on the cross for but I am having a hard time letting this go. My bf ask me not to worry about it and now I feel like the crazy one for even feeling this place to begin.

 

[Articles]

Let's begin by taking this to the Lord in prayer.

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you lifting up our sister in Christ who is experiencing anxiety and discomfort regarding a situation in her relationship. We pray for your peace and guidance to fill her heart and mind. Help her to discern your will and to act in a way that honors you. In Jesus' name, we pray.

Firstly, it's important to acknowledge that feelings of anxiety and discomfort should not be ignored. God has given us emotions for a reason, and they can often alert us to issues that need attention. It is good to see that both of you are Christians who believe in Jesus Christ. The Bible tells us, "Don't be anxious for anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God." (Philippians 4:6 WEB)

Regarding the situation with your boyfriend's female friend, it's important to address a few things. First, it is wise to be cautious in situations that make us uncomfortable, especially when it involves members of the opposite sex. The Bible tells us to "abstain from every form of evil." (1 Thessalonians 5:22 WEB) While it's important to trust your boyfriend, it's also important for him to understand and respect your feelings.

Since the bible tells us not to be unequally yoked (2 Corinthians 6:14), it is important to consider what type of friendships are being maintained. Is this a healthy friendship that is glorifying God and will this person be a healthy influence on your marriage in the future? As a couple, you should not to arouse jealousy. If your boyfriend is not mindful of this, he needs to be. For God tells us to guard one another's hearts.

The Bible tells us not to forsake our own assembly, but to assemble with believers (Hebrews 10:25) and for everything there is a season. (Ecclesiastes 3:1-8). A bf/gf relationship is a season of courtship, where you are deciding if this relationship will lead to marriage. Marriage will have limited time for friends outside the marriage.

Lastly, remember that God is our ultimate source of comfort and security. No matter what happens, He is always with us and will never forsake us. (Deuteronomy 31:6 WEB)

We find God discusses women leaving their parents to be joined together with their husbands to become one flesh and they will become one flesh. Men are also to leave their parents and join to his wife to become one flesh. (Genesis 2:24) If you are not ready to be married and if your boyfriend is not ready to be married, then consider if you need to be courting as a bf/gf in this time. Always remember to honor the marriage bed pure. (Hebrews 13:4). Go to a minister who knows you both and see if you have a Godly basis for a marriage in the first place.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, sister. Let's surround this situation with prayer, asking our Heavenly Father to fill your heart and mind with His peace and wisdom. We trust that He will guide you to act in a way that honors Him.

We understand that feelings of anxiety and discomfort can be overwhelming, but remember, God gave us emotions for a reason. They can alert us to issues that need our attention. Let's bring this to God in prayer, just as Philippians 4:6 encourages us: "Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God."

Now, about the situation with your boyfriend's female friend, let's approach it with love, wisdom, and open communication. It's important to express your feelings to your boyfriend, but do so in a way that's respectful and considerate of his perspective too. As it says in Ephesians 4:15, "Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ."

Let's also remember that God calls us to be wise and discerning. If something or someone makes you uncomfortable, it's okay to take a step back and reassess the situation. This doesn't mean you're jealous or overreacting, but rather that you're being cautious and respectful of your own feelings and boundaries.

Lastly, let's cling to the promise in Deuteronomy 31:6, "Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you." God is always with you, and He will never leave you.

Let's continue to lift you up in prayer, sister. We're here for you, and together, we trust that God will lead you through this. In Jesus' name, we pray.

 

[Cuneld]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to uplift you in prayer, dear sister, ever grateful for the trust you've placed in us to stand with you in your time of need. We've been interceding on your behalf, asking our Lord Jesus Christ to replace your worry and anxiety with His peace that surpasses all understanding.

If God has already granted you serenity and resolved the situation, we would be overjoyed to hear your praise report. Your testimony will encourage us all and glorify God. If you're still feeling uncomfortable or anxious, please don't hesitate to share an update. We are here to continue praying for you.

In our prayers, we are asking God to guide your boyfriend to understand your feelings and to act in a way that honors your relationship and his commitment to Christ. We are also praying for you to have discernment, peace, and patience, trusting that the Lord is working in your lives. Remember, God's timing is perfect, and He is faithful to answer our prayers according to His will.

May God bless you richly as you continue to seek Him and walk in His truth. We are praying for your emotional well-being, your relationship, and your spiritual growth, both individually and as a couple. We are asking all these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with the Father and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and forever. Amen.