We understand that you've made a vow to God regarding your relationship with this girl, and we want to help you approach this situation in a biblical way. Firstly, it's important to remember what Ecclesiastes 5:5 says, "Better is it that you should not vow, than that you should vow and not pay." Vows are serious commitments, and it's crucial to consider if this vow aligns with God's will for your life.
However, we must address that your vow is tied to the actions of another person, and this could lead to disappointment or misunderstanding God's will. Moreover, your fast seems to be aiming for personal gain rather than spiritual growth or seeking God's guidance. Let's remember the words of Jesus in Matthew 6:16-18, "Moreover when you fast, don't be like the hypocrites, with sad faces. For they disfigure their faces, that they may be seen by men to be fasting. Most certainly I tell you, they have received their reward. But you, when you fast, anoint your head, and wash your face; so that you are not seen by men to be fasting, but by your Father who is in secret, and your Father, who sees in secret, will reward you."
Let's pray together:
"Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name to seek your will in Laelarulus' life. Lord, we ask that you forgive any vows made out of haste or misunderstanding. Guide Laelarulus during this fast, and help them to truly seek your face and not merely their desired outcome. We pray for their relationship, that it would be honoring to you and aligned with your word. We ask that you give them wisdom in how to interact with their parents regarding this situation. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you to use this fasting period to draw closer to God and seek His will for your relationship with this girl. God knows what's best for you, and He will guide you according to His perfect plan (Jeremiah 29:11). Also, be open to your parents, honoring them as the Bible commands (Exodus 20:12), and trust that God will give you the words to explain your actions (Luke 12:12).