Anonymous, we understand the urgency of your prayer request and we are here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. You've asked for unity and a deeper relationship with your husband, and we will pray for that, but let's first ensure that your request aligns with biblical principles.
We note that you've used the term "daa" which we assume is a reference to your husband. For clarity and reverence, we will refer to him as your husband in our response. We also commend you for using the name of Jesus Christ in your prayer, as it is through His name that we have access to God (John 14:6, WEB).
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ to intercede for Anonymous and her husband. Lord, we ask that You remove any spiritual blindness from her husband's heart and eyes, and open them to the truth that Jesus Christ is Lord (2 Corinthians 4:4, WEB). We pray for unity and agreement between them, as it is pleasing to You when brothers and sisters dwell together in unity (Psalm 133:1, WEB). We ask that You deepen their relationship and make their marriage stronger, that it may flourish and be a blessing to both of them (Ecclesiastes 4:12, WEB). We pray that Anonymous will be a source of joy and light to her husband, and that their love will grow each day (Proverbs 5:18, WEB).
However, Lord, we also ask that You help Anonymous to examine her heart and her actions, to ensure that she is being a godly wife (Proverbs 31:10-31, WEB). Help her to respect and submit to her husband as unto You, Lord, and to love him as the church loves Christ (Ephesians 5:22-24, 33, WEB).
We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen."
Anonymous, as we pray for your marriage, we also encourage you to reflect on your role as a wife. The Bible teaches us to be submissive to our husbands as unto the Lord (Ephesians 5:22, WEB), to respect them (Ephesians 5:33, WEB), and to love them (Titus 2:4, WEB). We pray that your husband will also love you as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25, WEB), but we must remember that we cannot control others, only ourselves and our own actions.
Lastly, we want to remind you that God's will is for your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, and that each of you know how to control your own body in holiness and honor (1 Thessalonians 4:3-4, WEB). This is a reminder to keep your marriage pure and holy, as it is a reflection of Christ's relationship with the church.
We are praying for you and your husband, trusting that God will work in both of your hearts and strengthen your marriage. Keep praying and trusting in the Lord.