We understand your urgency and deep concern for your husband's salvation and your marriage. It's wonderful to see your desire for unity and a Christ-centered relationship, even more important is that your husband is born again and a believer in Jesus Christ. As a reminder, it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we can be saved and approach God the Father.
Firstly, let's address your desire for your husband's salvation. It's important to remember that while we can pray and witness, the work of salvation is ultimately between your husband and God. Consider these words from the WEB: "The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise, as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance." (2 Peter 3:9)
Now, regarding your marriage, it's beautiful to see your desire for unity and a deeper bond. We pray that God will strengthen your marriage and draw both of you closer to Him and to each other. As it is written, "Let the husband render to the wife the affection owed to her, and likewise also the wife to the husband. The wife doesn't have authority over her own body, but the husband. Likewise also the husband doesn't have authority over his own body, but the wife. Don't deprive one another, except it be by consent for a season, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer, and may be together again, that Satan doesn't tempt you for your lack of self-control." (1 Corinthians 7:3-5). This verse highlights the importance of mutual respect, consent, and unity in marriage.
However, we must address that the intense language used in your request may not be aligned with biblical principles. While it's normal to desire a strong bond and attraction, we must remember that our primary focus should be on loving God and loving our spouse as He loves us. "The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control; against such things there is no law." (Galatians 5:22-23 WEB). This verse reminds us of the qualities we should cultivate in our relationships.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this beloved sister and her husband. Lord, we pray for his salvation, that he may come to know You as his personal Lord and Savior. We ask that You draw them closer to You and to each other, strengthening their marriage and deepening their love and unity. Help them to desire You first, and then each other as You desire us to love. Guide them with Your wisdom, and fill their marriage with Your love, joy, and peace. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.