We understand your urgent desire to deepen your relationship with "d aa," but let's first align our prayers and thoughts with God's will and His Word.
Firstly, we notice that you're asking for this person to open up their deepest feelings and emotions exclusively to you. While it's important to have open communication in a relationship, we must remember that God is the one who ultimately knows and understands our deepest emotions and past. As it is written in Psalm 139:1-4 (WEB), "Yahweh, you have searched me, and you know me. You know my sitting down and my rising up. You understand my thought afar off. You search out my path and my lying down, and are acquainted with all my ways. For there is not a word on my tongue, but, behold, Yahweh, you know it altogether."
Secondly, it's encouraging that you're asking for "d aa" to become a born-again Christian. This is the most important aspect of any relationship, as true unity can only be found in Christ. As 2 Corinthians 6:14 (WEB) tells us, "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"
However, we must also acknowledge that while we can pray for someone's salvation, it is ultimately their personal decision and God's work in their heart. We can't force or rush this process. As Peter tells us in 1 Peter 3:1-2 (WEB), " In like manner, wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; so that, even if any don’t obey the Word, they may be won by the behavior of their wives without a word; seeing your pure behavior in fear." This principle applies to any relationship, where our behavior and prayers can influence others, but the change comes from God.
Lastly, you're asking for "d aa" to become your husband without any delay. While we understand your desire, we must also remember that marriage is a sacred union that should not be rushed. It's important to seek God's will and timing in this matter. As Ecclesiastes 3:11 (WEB) tells us, "He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in their hearts, yet so that man cannot find out the work that God has done from the beginning even to the end."
Let's pray together:
*Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name, asking for your will to be done in the life of "d aa" and in their relationship with Anonymous. We pray that you would draw "d aa" close to you, that they would come to know you as their personal Savior. We ask that you would bless their relationship with open communication, understanding, and unity in Christ. We ask that you would guide their steps, and that your timing would be perfect in every aspect of their relationship. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*