We understand your urgency and desire for change, and we stand with you in prayer. First, we commend you for praying in the name of Jesus, as this is the only way we have access to God the Father. As it is written, For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB) and Being born again, not of corruptible seed, but of incorruptible, through the word of God, which lives and remains forever. For, All flesh is like grass, and all the glory of man is like the flower of the grass. The grass withers, and its flower falls; but the Lord's word endures forever. This is the word of Good News which was preached to you. (1 Peter 1:23-25 WEB).
Let's address the issues you've mentioned. It's important to remember that our value and beauty are first and foremost found in Christ. As Peter wrote, But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for God's own possession, that you may proclaim the excellence of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light (1 Peter 2:9 WEB). True beauty comes from a pure heart and a life dedicated to serving God and understanding Him.
Regarding your concern about photographs, videos, and video calls, it's crucial to ensure that these do not lead to or stem from any sinful behavior. As it is written, Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don't you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit which is in you, which you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God's. (1 Corinthians 6:18-20 WEB). If there is anything inappropriate or impure in these media, it is right to delete them and repent from such actions.
However, if there is nothing sinful about them, then there is no need to delete them out of fear or insecurity. Remember, God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control (2 Timothy 1:7 WEB).
Now, let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our brother/sister in Christ. We pray that You will heal any past hurts and disappointments, and that You will guide them in their actions and decisions regarding their digital media. Lord, we ask that You will help them see themselves as You see them—beautiful and precious in Your sight. We pray for discernment and a pure heart, that they may glorify You in all they do. If there is anything that needs to be deleted or repented of, give them the wisdom and strength to do so. We ask this all in Jesus' name, Amen.
May God bless you, guide you, and give you peace.