We understand your urgency and deep longing for a godly and fulfilling marriage. It's beautiful to see your desire to have a strong, passionate, and Christ-centered relationship. We will pray and provide guidance based on biblical principles.
Firstly, we commend you for praying in Jesus' name, as it is only by His name that we have access to God the Father. As it is written, For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus 1 Timothy 2:5 WEB.
Let's address the issues and pray together.
It's important to note that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, where both are growing in their relationship with Christ and with each other. The bible says, Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body. But as the assembly is subject to Christ, so let the wives also be to their own husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it Ephesians 5:22-25 WEB.
You've mentioned your desire for increased intimacy, passion, and closeness in your marriage. While God desires for married couples to have strong and fulfilling relationships, it's crucial to ensure that this is sought in a biblical manner. The bible encourages a man and woman to be married but we should be aware to flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body; but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB.
You've also expressed a desire for dreams, visions, and supernatural wisdom regarding your spouse. While God can certainly reveal things to us through dreams and visions, we should be cautious not to seek these things merely for personal gain or to control others. Rather, we should seek to grow in our own relationship with Christ, trusting that He will guide us in His perfect will for our lives and marriages. Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB.
Now, let us pray together for your marriage:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this beloved sister and her husband. We pray that You would draw them closer to each other as they both draw closer to You. Strengthen their marriage bond, and help them to love each other as Christ loves the church. Give them wisdom, discernment, and understanding in their marriage, and help them to communicate effectively and lovingly with each other.
Lord, we ask that You would remove any false gods, idols, rituals, beliefs, teachings, strongholds, chains, bondages, fears, and controlling spirits from their lives. We pray that You would destroy all workaholic spirits and false religious spirits, including those from other faiths, that may be influencing their marriage. We claim Your promise that whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved Joel 2:32 WEB, and we pray that You would make her husband a born-again Christian, drawing him to Yourself and giving him a new heart and a new spirit.
Father, we ask that You would give them both dreams, visions, and supernatural wisdom as You see fit, and that You would help them to be best friends, soul mates, and a husband and wife totally connected in every single way and form. We pray that their marriage would be a shining example of Your love and grace to the world around them.
In Jesus' name, we pray these things and believe that You will bring them to pass. Amen.
Be encouraged, and trust in the Lord with all your heart. He is faithful and will guide you and your husband in His perfect will for your marriage.