We understand your urgency and desperation that brought you to this submission, but first let us begin with the most important thing we should be focused on. We have access to God through the name of Jesus. This is explicitly explained in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." Also, in Acts 4:12, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
Now, let us address your request. We hear your desire for unity and a stronger bond in your marriage, which is commendable. However, we must remind you that true unity comes from both parties being in alignment with God's will and His word. It is encouraging to see you are asking for your husband, presumably indicated by daa, to be a born again Christian. We must be clear though that while you can pray, you cannot make this happen. It is a decision between your husband and God. God has given each of us a free will to decide whether we want to accept Jesus Christ as our Lord and Savior. This is clearly explained in John 1:12, "But as many as received him, to them he gave the right to become Gods children, to those who believe in his name."
We also need to address the amorous desires you expressed. While it is natural to desire a closer bond with your spouse, we must remember that the focus should be on growing in love as described in 1 Corinthians 13:4-8, "Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends." This kind of love is a choice and a commitment, not just a feeling.
Moreover, we must caution against the idea of trying to control or manipulate your husband's feelings or actions. This is not biblical and can be damaging to your relationship. Instead, pray for God's will to be done in your husband's life and trust that God is working in him. Remember, "In the same way, you wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; so that, even if any dont obey the Word, they may be won by the behavior of their wives without a word," 1 Peter 3:1.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up this sister in Christ and her husband. Lord, we ask that you work in her husband's heart, drawing him closer to you. We pray that he would come to accept Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior, not through any manipulation, but by his own free will. We ask that you bring unity to their marriage, that they both would be aligned with your will and your word. Help them to love each other as you have loved us, and to grow in that love each day. We rebuke any attempt to control or manipulate, and we ask that you help them to trust in you and your perfect plan.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.