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Good afternoon, prayer request members, and I have a very urgent request. My best friend is going through so much since February 14th, which was his birthday. He came back to my house late Monday night after a few days following his birthday. He was telling me how, when he was with the female, she basically tried getting him killed. He did try to leave her house, but she was holding him against his will and wouldn’t let him leave her place. Luckily, he was able to leave and make it back to my house. He was telling how she is wishing all types of bad things upon him and his life. He told so much more, too, and she is being too possessive over him. He doesn’t like it because she is starting to ruin his life.

But I just pray that Jesus Christ removes any bad things and thoughts that will come towards him and makes sure he is protected and safe everywhere he goes and at all times that nothing will happen to him and that he doesn’t do anything that can get him harmed. I definitely pray that Jesus Christ please remove the female out of his life so that she will not have any type of communication with him at all and that she will never be able to see or speak to him again. She wants to bring danger to him only because he didn’t want to be with and around her anymore. So please Jesus Christ make sure you will remove her from his life because she is absolutely no good for him at all. He is definitely starting to see that his life is starting to go through hell after she has been in his life. I tried to tell him that multiple times already, and she tried to flip the story on him as if he did something when he didn’t do anything wrong. She is manipulating him and needs to be completely cut out of his life for good.

But he was also telling me how everyone that he called to help him leave her place nobody wanted to pick up the phone or help him unless it involved him doing something for them. So I pray that Jesus Christ please keep removing bad people from his life and keep revealing to him who the real people are in his life and reveal people's real intentions towards him so that he knows who to surround himself with and who not to be around him at all. To remove communication on his phone from people that are not good for him in his life and that he lets them go completely and doesn’t let those people back into his life like he keeps doing because he is scared to lose more people even though he knows they are not good for him. He knows certain people are bad for him but he doesn’t know how to let them go.

I also pray that Jesus Christ please put him in the right direction and help him to make all the right decisions right now and not any of the wrong decisions that can put his life in danger. So I need him to really think about things before he does it so he knows it would be a beneficial decision and not the wrong decisions. He needs to stay in the house with me like he said he wants to do to get his mind back right. When he is with me, his mind is always focused on what he needs to accomplish in his life, and I’m always helping him accomplish anything that he puts his mind to. But now that certain people are in his life, for example, his manipulative girlfriend, she is the one who is making his life go downhill, and now she is causing even more pain to his mental health that he was never in when he was with me. He was very focused on getting his life together with me, so I need him back on track with only me again. So please make sure he does that and doesn’t go anywhere else but to here to my house where he has been staying with me. Right now, I don’t know where he is because he turned his location off, and he probably went to her place again right now because that’s where he’s been doing for the past couple of days even though he knows it’s not good for his mental health and himself. Yesterday, he was given a dog to help him with his mental state, but yesterday he only got to spend a few hours with the dog and then he gave the dog to the police because he knew he didn’t have anywhere that the dog could stay in. After he gave the dog away, he was so upset that he had to give him up because they were both attached to each other, and he really didn’t want to give him away. But he knew that was best for the dog than before he gave the dog away, he took it to his girlfriend’s place for her to see him just for a little bit. When he left her place once again, he told me he was very heartbroken, and his girlfriend left him heartbroken again. So then he left the place with the dog, and he was walking around with the dog for hours at the pier, and he was all in his thoughts. Now he is to the point where he doesn’t know what to do anymore because this female keeps hurting his mental health, and he doesn’t know how to let her go completely when he knows he has to if he wants his life back on track when he was with me. And last night, he told me he wasn’t going to come back for the night because now he really wants some time to start thinking about things. But since I haven’t heard from him at he told me that, and I don’t know where he is or if he is okay. Since last night, he told me that he wasn’t okay, especially after getting hurt by his manipulative girlfriend and the fact that he had to give away his dog that was supposed to help him. Now I just really need to know where he is and if he’s okay because I haven’t heard from him since last night, and I’m really worried about him because I never seen him this hurt before. Normally, I’m able to talk to him and help him get through things, but this female is in his way and my way, and he keeps pushing me away from him, which is making it harder for me to help him, and I don’t like that because he wasn’t like this before this female came into his life and started messing everything up for him because he doesn’t know how to walk away from her. Every time he tries, he does it, but then she knows how to manipulate him for him to come back to her, and that’s not good for him, but he doesn’t see that yet and really needs to but please Jesus Christ watch over him and make sure nothing happens to him and make sure he will come back to my house today like he did for the past two days again and not go anywhere else that he doesn’t need to go to, especially for his mental.

Also, at 12 AM February 24, he found out that he lost his very closest cousin to him, and everyone in his family is blaming him for it even though he was at the house with me and not in anything and he was minding his business like always. Now since his family members are blaming him, he feels like it’s his fault for his cousin’s death even though he knows he didn’t do anything wrong and he wasn’t around when it happened, and he was literally crying on the phone with me asking Jesus Christ to please desperately help him get through this situation and to remove this female from his life too because she is causing too much pain and damage to his life now that he was trying so hard to fix before she came into his life because he really doesn’t know what to do and how to remove this person completely from his life on his own and he doesn’t know how to think or feel when it comes to his cousin’s death, and he really wants Jesus Christ guidance to get him through all of this going on and really put him on the right path with me again that he was going in before he started messing with that female. Because when he found out his cousin passed away, he went to that female’s place thinking that he can get comfort from her in the time that he needed it the most, but she did the complete opposite and doesn’t care about him at all and what he is going through at the moment. So then he called me, and he was on the phone with me for two hours straight while crying in pain over his cousin and daughter. Then he was only at her place for one day because he was really trying to get his mind off of things, but she makes it worse. So then around 1 PM that same day, he called me, and he was telling him how he had to escape her place again because she was trying to hurt him again, and as he was going to the train, he literally had to run to the train because he told me that she was following after him. But since he started running, she couldn’t keep up with him, and then he made it to the train with no problems, and he was able to get on the train and make it all the way back to my house. But when all of this was happening, he was also very drunk, so the female knew he was drunk and thought she was going to be able to hurt him, but he didn’t let that happen. Once again, he said he was single and not in a relationship with her anymore after trying to give her so many chances to try to see the good in her, but there’s nothing good to her at all. And now a few days ago, she called his phone trying to question him about his location and whereabouts and try to make it seem like he is lying about his locations and who he be around because she doesn’t want anybody else around him, but he told me and cried to me that all he wants is for her to leave him alone for good and to never speak or see her again. He doesn’t even want her to have any type of communication or relationship with him, and he just wants to cut ties with her completely. But he was crying out loud and praying to Jesus Christ asking him to please remove her from his life completely because he doesn’t know how to do it himself without going back to her because every time he tries, she finds her way back in to ruin his life and mental stability and to put his life in danger. And he is such a good and nice person that he doesn’t know how to let her go by himself because she keeps coming back and starts manipulating him again. So he really needs Jesus Christ to help remove her from his life so he can focus on getting his life back together with me again and be around people that he knows he can trust and knows he’s not going to be harmed, and he wants Jesus Christ to really protect him wherever he goes and wherever he’s at, at all times, and really show him how to navigate through his cousin’s death and to know that he is protected by the Lord and that nothing will happen to him and that he will make all the right choices from now on that will benefit him in a good way and that no harm comes his directions. Also, how he was thinking about his daughter’s birthday, and this was the first birthday that he can’t spend with her because she was killed a few months ago, and she would’ve been six years old. I know he wanted to a candle lighting for her, but he can’t if this female keeps being a bad manipulative distraction to his life. So please Jesus Christ, he really needs you right now to help him get through all this stuff that is going on for him right now because he really doesn’t know what to do and how to feel, and he was really asking and pleading out loud in tears and devastating emotions for your help and guidance to please take control of his life and help him remove all the bad influences and bad people in his life that don’t belong in his life at all, and he wants them out for good without turning back and them coming back into his life once they are removed from his life because he even said he doesn’t know if it’s Jesus Christ or the devil trying to get to him, and he just really wants his life back on track and focus with me and all the goals we already discussed and were trying to get done for months now when he was focused with his life before this female came into his life and started ruining everything and is a huge problem and distraction for him to do bad in his life.

A few days ago, he called my phone, and his manipulative girlfriend that he was around again, she was arguing and yelling at him for nothing and accusing him of doing erratic behaviors, but I was on the phone with him the whole time, and he wasn’t even yelling, and he was talking calmly and normal, and she ended up calling the cops on him and tried to make it seem like it was a domestic violence situation going on between them even though he didn’t do anything wrong at all, and she didn’t even want to fill out a report when the cops came because she knew he didn’t even do anything wrong that she was accusing him of doing before the cops got there, but she keeps starting issues for no reason with him, and that’s not okay. But Jesus Christ, I’m asking too for him because he really doesn’t deserve this, and he was really trying his best to change his life around for the best, but he can’t because this female keeps finding her ways to come back in and ruin it and be a very good manipulative person, and he’s been at her place multiple times now before two days ago for a few days trying to get from being attached to her, but he does not know how because she is so manipulative and possessive, and he doesn’t know how to detach from her completely and not go to her place anymore and to stay at mine, and he said he is tired of missing all the signs that I’m trying to and people keep trying to tell him to do in order to make himself better in life, and he wishes that he would listen to me more instead of her, but he can’t because this female keeps manipulating him and being his very bad distraction that he doesn’t need at all and doesn’t want anymore but doesn’t know how to remove her from his life without her coming back in. So I’m asking you can you please desperately remove her from his life because he doesn’t know why she isn’t being removed out his life after crying about it and everything she tried to do toward him to harm him, and I know every time I prayed for him, my prayers always work, and I always get the outcome I want and need on his behalf, so Jesus Christ, can you please answer this prayer for him and help him because he really needs it the most.

Also, I pray that he please get in contact with me so I know that he is okay, and I can have a conversation with him to check on his mental because ever since he started talking to this person, he doesn’t like communicating with me like he used to because he always communicated with me 24/7 about everything, but because of her, he doesn’t do it anymore. But I haven’t heard from him since last night when I spoke to him, and he wasn’t doing okay at all mentally like he told me, and he is still has his location off, so I can’t even see where he is right now to know where he is and to know if he is safe, especially with the mindset he has right now. So I really need him to speak to me and to put his location back on so I know where he is at all time like I normally do when he isn’t in the house with me, and I pray that he isn’t with that female right now at her place because it’s only going to keep making him worse, and I really just want the best for him and to see him happy with me again like he used to be before she was put into his life. So I pray that Jesus Christ please put him back on the right track with only me again because I’m not going to give up on him until he is put back on the right path with only me because he knows he can trust me like always because he really needs another wake-up call that shows him that this female isn’t right for him or his life, especially after putting his life in danger and jeopardy multiple times, and he keeps forgiving it, and I don’t want him to keep forgiving her actions that she keeps putting him in, and I’m trying to help him get back into the right mindset and path with me again because it’s too late, and he really does end up very hurt, and his life could be taken from him by this female because she already tried doing it already, and it didn’t work, and I definitely don’t want his life taken away from him, so he needs to separate from her for good because she definitely has motives to ruin his life and the path me and him was going in when he was very focused. But after she tried getting him killed, even his sister told him to stop messing around with her and to leave her alone, and his sister was telling him the same things I was trying to tell him after the female tried to set him up, and he told him that he felt like that was a wake-up call and that he wasn’t going to go back over there again, but now he is over there again, and he has been over there for days now thinking that everything is fine and good even though a day ago the female hurt his heart again, and instead of him walking away for good, he left for a few hours just to go back over there with her and still be with her, and she is just being a narcissist and manipulative person just to get him back in her place with her. But he really needs to let her go because now he doesn’t know how to focus on any of his own responsibility anymore, and he doesn’t know how to stop being blind to everything and all the signs he was given to show who the female is, so he really needs a wake-up to show him how she is only in his life to ruin it and take from him because of the career he is working on with me and the money she knows I’m helping him get to build me and his life up for the both of us because he originally planned for months to build a successful life with me and him in it, but now that this female came back into his life years later now, he stopped working on his goals that we talked about, and he stopped focusing on his responsibilities on his own, and he doesn’t care about the people, real people in his life that’s always been in his life and been helping him, especially me since I’ve been the only person to really put a lot of effort and time into him to make him a better person that he wants to be, but now he’s pushing me away because of her, and now his life is slowly getting worse for him because of this female in his life, and I really don’t want or need that to happen, so that’s why I’m trying to still help him because he is really going through so much pain more in his life now, but he keeps going to the female that is not helping him and that is causing more stress and pain mentally towards him, and he doesn’t need that at all, and everybody, especially me, keeps telling him that, but he still doesn’t want to listen even after all the signs he’s been given to leave her, but clearly those didn’t work hard enough on him to realize that she is just damaging his life again.
 
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We are deeply concerned for your friend and we stand with you in prayer. We must first address that the relationship he is in is not godly. The woman he is involved with has been manipulative, possessive, and has put his life in danger. This is not a relationship that honors God or aligns with biblical principles. It is clear that this relationship has become a stumbling block for him, leading him away from his responsibilities and those who truly care for him.

Let us pray:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today in Jesus Christ's mighty name to lift up our dear friend who is going through tremendous trials. Lord, You see the manipulation, the danger, and the emotional turmoil he is experiencing. We pray that You will intervene and remove this ungodly influence from his life. Give him the strength to cut ties completely and to resist the temptation to return to her.

Lord, we also pray for his mental and emotional healing. The loss of his cousin and the memories of his daughter's birthday are weighing heavily on him. Comfort him in his grief and help him to find peace in You. Remind him that You are close to the brokenhearted and save those who are crushed in spirit.

Father, we ask that You will surround him with godly influences and true friends who will support and encourage him in his walk with You. Open his eyes to see the truth about this relationship and the people around him. Give him discernment to know who to trust and who to avoid.

We pray that You will guide him back to the path he was on with his friend, helping him to focus on his goals and responsibilities. Restore their friendship and help him to see the value of the support and love that has been offered to him.

Finally, Lord, we pray for his protection. Keep him safe from all harm and danger. Give him the wisdom to make the right decisions and to stay away from those who would harm him.

We pray all this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, who is the only way to You and the only name by which we can be saved.

**Lord, hear our prayer.**

**Amen.**

We encourage your friend to put his trust in the Lord, to seek God's will in all things, and to flee from this ungodly relationship.

Isaiah 26:3-4 WEB
You will keep whoever's mind is steadfast in perfect peace,
because he trusts in you.

Trust in Yahweh forever;
for in Yah, Yahweh, is an everlasting Rock.

Matthew 18:15-17 WEB
Moreover if your brother sins against you, go, show him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained back your brother. But if he doesn't listen, take one or two more with you, that at the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established. If he refuses to hear them, tell it to the assembly. If he refuses to hear the assembly also, let him be to you as a Gentile or a tax collector.

2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB
Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?

For you were called to freedom, brothers and sisters; only don't use this freedom as an occasion for the flesh, but through love serve one another. For the whole Law is fulfilled in one word, in this: 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself.' But if you bite and devour one another, be careful that you don't consume one another.

But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you won't fulfill the lust of the flesh. For the flesh lusts against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh; and these are contrary to one another, that you may not do the things that you desire. But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the Law. Now the works of the flesh are obvious, which are: adultery, sexual immorality, uncleanness, lustfulness, idolatry, sorcery, hatred, strife, jealousies, outbursts of anger, rivalries, divisions, heresies, envyings, murders, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these; of which I forewarn you, even as I also forewarned you, that those who practice such things will not inherit God's Kingdom. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Those who belong to Christ have crucified the flesh with its passions and lusts.

If we live by the Spirit, let's also walk by the Spirit. Let's not become conceited, provoking one another, and envying one another.
 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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