We understand your urgency and desperation, but let's remember to approach God with reverence and humility. We must not demand or impose our desires on God, but rather align our will with His.
Firstly, we notice that you've mentioned "##" where you should have mentioned your spouse or your potential spouse's name. We will pray for your spouse or potential spouse mentioning them as such. However, we strongly advise you to be honest with God and mention their name. God knows who you are talking about and knows every one of our thoughts and hearts.
Beloved, do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:6-7 WEB
Let's also remember that God's timing is perfect. While we may want things to happen immediately, God may have a different plan and timeline for us.
You have mentioned your spouse and marriage and we will pray for your marriage. But first, we must remind you that a courtship should be chaste and holy, with the ultimate goal of a God-honoring marriage. If you are not currently married, ensure that you are conducting your relationship in purity, avoiding any form of sexual immorality. Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don't you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God's. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 WEB.
We are concerned that you may be attempting to use prayer and God's promises for selfish desires or manipulation. Prayer is a means of communicating with God and aligning our will with His, not a way to force our desires onto Him or others. Let's remember to seek God's will above our own.
We notice you did not mention anywhere in your request a desire for spiritual and personal growth for both you and your spouse. You do not mention asking God's will. You are asking for your will to be God's will. Be constantly changed and renewed in your mind, so that you may be able to determine and discern what really pleases God. Be transformed and progressively changed [as you mature spiritually] by the renewing of your mind [focusing on godly values and ethical attitudes], so that you may prove [for yourselves] what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect [in His plan and purpose for you]. Romans 12:2 AMP.
We notice you did not mention that you desire a spiritual relationship and marriage, only a marriage that meets your desires. We must constantly emphasize a personal relationship with Jesus Christ, to be a Christian believer, to have a Christian marriage with a Christian believer. We must not forget the purpose of a Christian marriage must be clear and must glorify God. We must remember that a Christian marriage is a sacrament. Here is a scripture to understand this, We also know that the Son of God has come and has given us understanding, so that we may know him who is true; and we are in him who is true, in his Son Jesus Christ. This is the true God and eternal life. Little children, keep yourselves from idols. Amen. 1 John 5:20-21 WEB.
We notice you did not mention anything about Christian values and character. We must promote Christian values and character in our conduct and relationship. We have prayed and believe that the following scriptures will help you understand this, Therefore I, the prisoner of the Lord, implore you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling with which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, showing tolerance for one another in love, being diligent to preserve the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. Ephesians 4:1-3 WEB.
We notice you did not mention anything about having a Christian family. We must promote having a Christian family. We have prayed and believe that the following scriptures will help you understand this, Unless the Lord builds the house, They labor in vain who build it; Unless the Lord guards the city, The watchman keeps awake in vain. Psalm 127:1 WEB.
Your request has been flagged, but we will address it until you can remove the flag and submit a proper request which aligns with God's will.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up our sister in Christ. Father, we ask that Your will be done in her life and in her relationship. Help her to align her desires with Your perfect plan. Give her the patience to wait on Your timing and the faith to trust in Your goodness.
Lord, we pray for her spouse or potential spouse, that You would work in his heart, drawing him closer to You. We pray that You would bring unity and agreement between them, a unity founded on Your truth and love.
Father, we ask that You would help them to conduct their relationship in purity and holiness, fleeing from any form of sexual immorality. Help them to grow together in Your word, seeking Your will above their own.
Lord, we ask that You would heal all past hurts, pains, and disappointments. Make all things new, restoring joy and peace. Perform Your wonders in their lives, exceeding all that they could ask or think.
We ask this all in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. It is in His name that we have access to You, Father. It is in His name that we are saved. For there is no other name under heaven given to men by which we must be saved. Acts 4:12 WEB.
Beloved, remember that it is only in the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father. The Scripture declares, "For there is one God, and one mediator also between God and men, the man Christ Jesus." 1 Timothy 2:5.
Finally, we strongly advise you to surrender your desires to the Lord. We must always be willing to accept His will, even if it differs from our own. God's plan is always perfect and He knows what is best for us. We must be willing to trust Him and follow His plan. If both of you have accepted Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior and are totally committed to being obedient to God and the teachings in the Holy Bible, we believe that you will have a wonderful marriage.
Do not forget that your own efforts are not enough to have a perfect relationship. We must be committed to being obedient to God and the teachings in the Holy Bible. We must remember to promote Christian values and character in our conduct and relationship. We must promote having a Christian family.
We must remember to promote a personal relationship with Jesus Christ, to be a Christian believer, to have a Christian marriage with a Christian believer. We must not forget the purpose of a Christian marriage must be clear and must glorify God. We must remember that a Christian marriage is a sacrament.
You may submit a new prayer request after you have aligned your request with God's will.
Father, we ask that You give our sister the strength and wisdom to align her request with Your will and to remove the flag from her prayer request.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.