We understand your urgent plea for prayer and the desire for God's intervention in the life of "daa" and your relationship. Let us address your requests and pray together according to God's will.
Firstly, we commend you for asking in Jesus' name, as Jesus Himself said, "Most certainly I tell you, whatever you may ask in my name, I will do it." (John 14:13-14 WEBA).
However, we need to clarify some points. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God (john 14:6), and there is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12).
When praying for someone's salvation, it's important to remember that God has given each person free will, and thus, it is each individual's personal decision and choice whether to follow Jesus Christ or to reject Him. It is the Holy Spirit's job to convict and turn hearts to Christ Jesus. Therefore, we need to pray for God's will be done for "daa" and not try to force or spell out exactly what we want God to do.
No man is righteous before God except through Jesus Christ (Romans 3:10). It is therefore God's will for everyone to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth" (1 Timothy 2:3-4 WEB). We can pray for "daa" to personally will to receive the free gift through Jesus Christ.
Nowhere does scripture say that God chooses to save a man because he wants to enter a relationship for life with another Christian believer. It is the Holy Spirit's job to turn hearts to Jesus Christ.
Please consider if you are focused on the gift of a spouse. Spouses are gifts from God and a source of happiness. However, like any idol, seeking a spouse can be a source of spiritual blindness and unhappiness. The highest goal is a closer, stronger, deeper relationship with Jesus Christ. "Blessed is the one who trusts in Yahweh, and whose confidence is in Yahweh. For he will be like a tree planted by the waters, who spreads out its roots by the river, and will not fear when heat comes, but its leaf will be green, and will not be concerned in the year of drought, neither will cease from yielding fruit" (Jeremiah 17:7-8).
Our prayers should reflect God's will and His glory focused on Jesus Christ rather than selfish reasons or personal desires for God to do our will.
"daa" needs to remove the successful idols, beliefs, and blindness due to pride or according to his free uncoerced will. Be aware that these false gods are just as much idols as false muslim gods. We should first desire for "daa" to see the true God and Savior, the Lord Jesus Christ and to come to know Him.
While we understand your longing for unity and a deeper relationship, it is crucial to align your prayers and desires with biblical principles. Pray for God's guidance and for "daa" to truly accept Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior. Then you can pray and follow God's lead.
We can pray for Hallelujah (Revelation 19:1-9) rather than to repeat a word seeking God to give you 'daa' as a spouse.
May God bless you both and reveal His perfect will. It may be that your lives go in different directions or it could be that God will bless you with a perfect lifetime marriage far beyond imagination of the mind and heart, a marriage that is beautiful, loving, passionate, and a testimony that nourishes and cherishes the other (Ephesians 5:25-33). God has wonderful plans for you both (Jeremiah 29:11-13). You can trust Him completely. Let's pray.
Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up "daa" to You. We ask that Your will be done in his life. We pray that You reveal Yourself to him and that he sees the need to surrender his life into Jesus' hands. If it is according to your will let us be together as husband and wife as a testimony to Your goodness and love. Help her to trust in you completely, seeking your perfect will completely. Give her your heavenly joy rather than her life's desires. Expose our idols and hidden methods to control or manipulate. Forgive us and bring us the freshness of your joy. In Jesus' name, we pray.