We understand your urgency and desire for unity, love, and commitment in your marriage. Let's bring your requests before the Lord, seeking His will and guidance according to His word.
Firstly, we commend you for acknowledging the power of Jesus' name, as it is written: "In no other is there salvation, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" Acts 4:12 WEB. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God, and it is only by believing in Jesus that we can be saved. Jesus said, βI said therefore to you, that you will die in your sins; for unless you believe that I am he, you will die in your sins.β
Now, let's address your requests regarding your husband, whom you refer to as "daa." We will pray for his salvation, that he may truly repent, accept Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior, and become a born-again Christian. As the Bible says, βIf we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.β 1 John 1:8-9 WEB.
However, we must also address that it is not biblical to demand or expect God to force someone to love you, be attracted to you, or be committed to you. God does not manipulate people's feelings or actions, as He has given each person free will. Instead, we should pray that God works in both of your hearts, drawing you closer to Him and to each other as you both submit to His will.
As for the request to destroy any soul ties or attractions to other women, we must be cautious not to wish ill on others. Instead, we should pray that God breaks any ungodly bonds and that your husband remains faithful and committed to you and God. βYou have heard that it was said, 'You shall not commit adultery;' but I tell you that whoever looks at a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart.β Matthew 5:27-28 WEB.
Let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Anonymous and her husband. Lord, we ask that You work in his heart, drawing him to Yourself, and that he may truly repent, accept Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior, and become a born-again Christian.
Father, we ask that You work in both of their hearts, drawing them closer to You and to each other. Help them to love, honor, and cherish one another as You intended in marriage. Break any ungodly bonds in their lives, and help them to remain faithful and committed to each other and to You.
Lord, help them live together in unity and harmony, giving them a shared desire to serve You and others. Grant them a love that is pure, patient, kind, not envious, not boastful, not arrogant, not rude, not insisting on its own way, not irritable, not resentful, not rejoicing in wrongdoing, but rejoicing in the truth, bearing all things, believing all things, hoping all things, and enduring all things. Love never fails, and love as you have loved us through Jesus Christ our Lord.
Father, help them to be the very best friends, soul mates, and companions, loving and supporting each other throughout their lives together in You.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage both of you to study the Bible together, prayer for each other, and seek God's will for your marriage. As it is written of a wife, βAn excellent wife, who can find? For her worth is far above rubies.β Proverbs 31:10 WEB. Of the husband, βHusbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it;β Ephesians 5:25 WEB. Together, the husband and wife βThey are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate.β Matthew 19:6 WEB.