Very difficult situation with my ### parents

natasha2 · Dec 28, 2024

Lord please help me with my old parents. They are so complicated. Manipulating me whole time. I don't know what is true and what is a lie. And they don't want any professional help, either psychological or physical. I don't know what to do. My inheritance is also questionable. My brother got it all and more (me less than half) and obviously seeking to get more in manipulative ways and my parents stalling me and blocking me in all possible ways and blackmailing me invisibly that I should live with them and help them and I find it impossible because of my mother's aggressive and critical behaviors (narcissism and manipulation). She abused me emotionally sometimes physically. Lord I don't know what to do. I want to help but this is like devils' limbo having something to do with them. Only mess, chaos, drama, lying, manipulating, hidden agendas, forgetting things (is this only acting??) and they are causing me a lot of hurt and guilt. No respect from them. They don't believe me and sometimes tantrums - crying and scenes. Lord I can't hold it any more. I must have my life in control, not losing it. I am a teacher in the high school. I don't know what will happen and this is making me very anxious. Lot of things worrying me connected to them and me before and after they pass away. They are not helping me to resolve anything. Only complications. One day my mother says one thing the other day another thing. It's an impossible situation. My brother is also harsh. He accused me yesterday that I am selfish, self-indulgent because I don't want to live with them and he is forced to live with them if something happens. But he is different than me and they have a different approach to him....he took cocaine with his girlfriend and was in jail for 6 months. I am the only one saved in this family. Lord please help. I want to do the right thing but I don't see a solution here.

Articles · Dec 28, 2024

We understand that you are facing a very challenging situation with your parents and your brother. First, let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up ### and her difficult family situation. Lord, you are a God of order, not confusion, and we ask for your wisdom and guidance in this complex and trying circumstance. We pray that you will reveal the truth to ###, and help her to discern the right path forward. We ask that you soften the hearts of her parents and her brother, and that your love and peace would reign in their home. We also pray that ### will feel your comfort and strength during this time, and that she will be released from any feelings of guilt or obligation that are not from you. We ask for your favor and provisions and blessings for her inheritance. Finally, we pray that ###'s family would come to know you personally, that you would draw them to yourself, and that they would be transformed by your love. We pray that ### and her family would know your will and walk in it. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

###, it's important to remember that God instructs us to honor our parents, but that does not mean we should allow them to manipulate or abuse us. The Bible tells every person must obey the governing authorities. For there is no authority except from God, and those that exist have been instituted by God. Therefore whoever resists the authorities resists what God has appointed, and those who resist will incur judgment. We should not have to carry the weight of their demands if it's causing us harm.

Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Honor your father and mother which is the first commandment with a promise, so that it may be well with you, and that you may live long on the earth. Ephesians 6:1-3 WEB.

It's clear that your parents and brother are not acting in a way that honors God, and it's important for you to set boundaries to protect yourself emotionally and physically. It's not selfish or self-indulgent to prioritize your well-being and safety, especially when you are being emotionally abused and manipulated.

We also want to address the fact that you mentioned being the only one saved in your family. This is a difficult situation, but remember that God has called you to be a light in the darkness. Let no one seek his own, but each one his neighbor's good. 1 Corinthians 10:24 WEB. Stay strong in your faith and continue to pray for them. Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. Romans 12:21 WEB.

Regarding your inheritance, it's important to remember that God is our provider and that he will never forsake us. We should trust in him, not in wealth or possessions. Charge those who are rich in this present world that they not be arrogant, nor have their hope set on the uncertainty of riches, but on the living God, who richly provides us with everything to enjoy; 1 Timothy 6:17 WEB.

Finally, we want to encourage you to seek godly counsel and support during this time. This may involve speaking with a pastor or a trusted Christian friend, or seeking guidance from a Christian counselor.

Continue to trust in God and rest in his promises. For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11 WEB.

hostadmin · Dec 28, 2024

We're right here with you, ###. It's heartbreaking to hear about the manipulation, abuse, and chaos you're facing with your parents and brother. We've been praying for you, and we want you to know that you're not alone in this.

Lord Jesus, we come to you on ###'s behalf. We ask for your healing and restoration in her family. We pray that you would reveal the truth, bring clarity to the situation, and guide ### in her decisions. We ask that you would soften the hearts of her parents and brother, and that your love and peace would reign in their home. We also pray for protection over ###, that she would be shielded from further harm and manipulation. Give her strength, wisdom, and discernment in this challenging time. Help her to trust in you and find comfort in your embrace. We ask for your favor and blessings over her inheritance, and we pray that her family would come to know you personally, be transformed by your love, and walk in your will. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

###, we want you to know that it's okay to set boundaries to protect yourself. God doesn't expect you to endure abuse or manipulation. He wants you to be safe and healthy. Remember, "No one should seek their own good, but the good of others" (1 Corinthians 10:24). Keep shining your light, and trust that God is with you.

We're here for you, and we'll keep praying for you and your family.

Felic · Dec 28, 2024

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

Cinu · Dec 28, 2024

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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The Encourager · Dec 28, 2024

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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hostadmin · Jan 3, 2025

We continue to lift you and your family up in prayer, especially concerning the complex situation with your parents and brother. We are honored that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you in this time of need.

If you have seen any improvements or breakthroughs in this situation, we would be delighted to hear about it. Your testimony could be a great encouragement to others who are also seeking God's intervention in their family life.

If the situation remains unchanged or has worsened, please do not hesitate to share an update. We are committed to praying with you and for you. Remember, God's timing is perfect, and He is at work even when we cannot see it.

Let us continue to pray together that God will bring peace, clarity, and resolution to your family. May He grant you the wisdom to navigate this difficult time, the discernment to see the truth, and the strength to stand firm in His will. May God bless you richly as you continue to seek Him and trust in His promises through Jesus Christ our Lord.

We pray for your parents, that God would soften their hearts and open their eyes to the truth. We pray for your brother, that he would find salvation and freedom from his past mistakes. And we pray for you, that God would grant you peace, patience, and guidance as you strive to do what is right and honoring to Him. May God protect you and bless your efforts to be a positive influence in your family. We pray that God will help you to have your life in control and live with peace in your heart, wisdom in your mind and hope in your soul. Finally, we pray that God will give you confidence and take away all the anxiety you have because of this situation. We ask all of this in Jesus Name.