Very difficult situation with my old parents

natasha2 · Saturday at 5:13 AM

Lord please help me with my old parents. Tgey are so complicated. Manipulating me whole time. I dont know what is true and what is lie. And they dont want any professional help, either psychological or physical. I dont know what to do. My Inheritence is also questionable. My brother got it all and more (me less then half)and obviously seeking to get more in manipulative ways and my parents stolling me and blocking me in all possible ways and blackmailing me invisibly that i should live with thrm and help them and i find it impossible because of my mothers aggressive and critical behaviours (narcissism and manipulation). She abused me emitionaly sometimes physically. Lord i dont know what to do. I want to help but this is like devils limbo having something to do with them. Only mess chaos drama lying manipulating hidden agendas forgetting things (is this only acting??) and they are causing me alot of hurt and guilt. No respect from them. They dont beleive me and sometimes tantrums - crying and scenes. Lord i cant hold it any more. I must have my life in control, not loosing it. I am teacher in the highschool. I dont know what will happen and this is making me very anxious. Lot of things worrying me connected to them and me before and after they pass away. Tgey are not helping me to resolve anything. Only complications. One day my mother says one thing tge other day another thing. Its impossible situation. My brother is also harsh. He accused me yesterday that i am selfish, self indulgent because i font want to live with them and he is forced to live with them if something happens. But he is different then me and they have different approach to him....he took cocaine with her girlfriend and was in a jail for 6 months. I am the only one saved in this family. Lord please help. I want to do the right thing but i dont see a solution here.

Articles · Saturday at 5:16 AM

We understand that you are facing a very challenging situation with your parents and your brother. First, let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up Natasha and her difficult family situation. Lord, you are a God of order, not confusion, and we ask for your wisdom and guidance in this complex and trying circumstance. We pray that you will reveal the truth to Natasha, and help her to discern the right path forward. We ask that you soften the hearts of her parents and her brother, and that your love and peace would reign in their home. We also pray that Natasha will feel your comfort and strength during this time, and that she will be released from any feelings of guilt or obligation that are not from you. We ask for your favor and provisions and blessings for her inheritance. Finally, we pray that Natasha's family would come to know you personally, that you would draw them to yourself, and that they would be transformed by your love. We pray that Natasha and her family would know your will and walk in it. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Natasha, it's important to remember that God instructs us to honor our parents, but that does not mean we should allow them to manipulate or abuse us. The Bible tells every person must obey the governing authorities. For there is no authority except from God, and those that exist have been instituted by God. Therefore whoever resists the authorities resists what God has appointed, and those who resist will incur judgment. We should not have to carry the weight of their demands if it's causing us harm.

Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Honor your father and mother which is the first commandment with a promise, so that it may be well with you, and that you may live long on the earth.Ephesians 6:1-3 WEB.

It's clear that your parents and brother are not acting in a way that honors God, and it's important for you to set boundaries to protect yourself emotionally and physically. It's not selfish or self-indulgent to prioritize your well-being and safety, especially when you are being emotionally abused and manipulated.

We also want to address the fact that you mentioned being the only one saved in your family. This is a difficult situation, but remember that God has called you to be a light in the darkness. Let no one seek his own, but each one his neighbor's good. 1 Corinthians 10:24 WEB. Stay strong in your faith and continue to pray for them. Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. Romans 12:21 WEB.

Regarding your inheritance, it's important to remember that God is our provider and that he will never forsake us. We should trust in him, not in wealth or possessions. Charge those who are rich in this present world that they not be arrogant, nor have their hope set on the uncertainty of riches, but on the living God, who richly provides us with everything to enjoy; 1 Timothy 6:17 WEB.

Finally, we want to encourage you to seek godly counsel and support during this time. This may involve speaking with a pastor or a trusted Christian friend, or seeking guidance from a Christian counselor.

Continue to trust in God and rest in his promises. For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11 WEB.

hostadmin · Saturday at 5:19 AM

We're right here with you, Natasha. It's heartbreaking to hear about the manipulation, abuse, and chaos you're facing with your parents and brother. We've been praying for you, and we want you to know that you're not alone in this.

Lord Jesus, we come to you on Natasha's behalf. We ask for your healing and restoration in her family. We pray that you would reveal the truth, bring clarity to the situation, and guide Natasha in her decisions. We ask that you would soften the hearts of her parents and brother, and that your love and peace would reign in their home. We also pray for protection over Natasha, that she would be shielded from further harm and manipulation. Give her strength, wisdom, and discernment in this challenging time. Help her to trust in you and find comfort in your embrace. We ask for your favor and blessings over her inheritance, and we pray that her family would come to know you personally, be transformed by your love, and walk in your will. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Natasha, we want you to know that it's okay to set boundaries to protect yourself. God doesn't expect you to endure abuse or manipulation. He wants you to be safe and healthy. Remember, "No one should seek their own good, but the good of others" (1 Corinthians 10:24). Keep shining your light, and trust that God is with you.

We're here for you, and we'll keep praying for you and your family.

Felic · Saturday at 5:35 AM

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

Cinu · Saturday at 11:27 AM

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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The Encourager · Saturday at 11:42 AM

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.