Durselana, we are here to pray for your situation. We see that you are in a distressing time with loss of both a job and a friend, but here is some advice, rebuke, reproof, and correction in scripture not mentioned and some guidance to assist you then we will pray. First of all look at these scriptures, 'Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and pleading with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, shall guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus ' Philippians 4:6-8. God is always ready to listen we only have to come before Him in word and thought. This leads to peace above all human understanding. Do not let time pass but be fervent in following God, 'I must work the works of him who sent me while it is day; night is coming when no one can work' Jn 9:4. Do something now that you are saved by grace unless you think you are perfect in the wicked world. Also look at ' When you come to appear before me, Who has required this at your hand, to trample my courts?' Isaiah 1:12, 'Do not offer to bring an abomination into his temple if you believe in Him and worship Him honor Him also. He said he will violently cast it out' Matthew 21:12-13 Let us help you look to the one Holy God the Father who only forgives 'in Jesus name'. I see you state ' God' a few times but Let us address this to Him, but mankind must come before the only God without the true name of the son of His Jesus. ' For this is good and acceptable before God our Savior, which desires all people to be saved and to come into full knowledge of truth' 1 Tm 2:3-4 + ' Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name given among men, whereby we must be saved' Acts 4:11-12. For us to specifically address you and Joe. Do you yourself know God? You seem to know Who God is, but it seems like you and Joe do not have a cordial and loving relationship and might not exist in His will for each of you regardless of knowing each other or not. ‘Be ye not unequally yoked with unbelievers: for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? or what communion hath light with darkness?' 2 cor 6:14-17. To be equally yoked you as a man and woman need to be aimed at honoring God together as man and woman in God's way of a system of Biblical courtship that honors God as a husband and wife in times to come. Are you care about Gods will foremost? Your intentions for believing in Joe are commendable, I see a lot of scriptures about contacting those who do not contact you rather than finding a good and healthy relationship honorable to God, we encourage you too. Remember, it is crucial to discern God's will in all your actions prayerfully in Jesus name and only be (yoked) together in Jesus name agreeing on His path.
Now we pray.
Father help Dursalana and Joe in Jesus name. Let Dursalana know You and Your will for her, that she may glorify You in everything she does. You know her situation with the job and in the broken relationship along with the situation that has arisen. Your word cautions us 'to be not deceived: evil companionships corrupt good morals.' 1 Cor 15:33, Father. Dursalana may have a kind heart toward Joe, but if he is not following You, Father, and if he is not seeking Your will, then we pray You will guide Dursalana to a godly spouse in Jesus name.
We pray that You will open a door for a new job for Dursalana that aligns with Your will for her life. 'Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, And he will make your paths straight' Prov 3:5-13. Please help her feel Your peace through this trial and draw near to You. We pray that if it is Your will, that Joe will soften his heart and communicate with Dursalana so that restoration and forgiveness can occur. 'Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you' Eph 4:31-32.
Father, You know the pain Dursalana is feeling, and we pray that You will comfort her and guide her through this difficult time. 'Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart; and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light' Mt 11:28-30. We pray that Dursalana will find rest and peace in You.
We pray that Dursalana will seek You first and that You will help her to trust in Your goodness and faithfulness. 'But seek first God's Kingdom and His righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well' Mt 6:33.
Father, we pray that Dursalana will feel Your love and presence during this time. Please give her the strength and guidance she needs to get through this trial. We pray all these things in Jesus name.