We understand your urgent desire for unity and blessing in your marriage. However, we need to address something important first. The use of "###" is unclear, and we hope it does not refer to a non-Christian or a person espousing unbiblical values.
Firstly, let's remember that God's will is for us to be sanctified, and that involves shunning sexual immorality and learning to control our own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the pagans, who do not know God and His ways. We must not wrong or take advantage of a brother or sister by leading them into sexual immorality. This is very important in a godly marriage. The Lord will punish men for all such sins, as we have already told you and warned you. For God has not called us to uncleanness (impurity), but to holiness by separating us from such things. Therefore, whoever rejects this, rejects not man, but God who provides His Holy Spirit for and to you to enable you to live according to His word.
Now, let's focus on your marriage. It's clear that you desire a strong, passionate, and godly relationship. This is commendable, but remember that true unity comes from both parties being deeply committed to Christ and to each other. The love between a husband and wife should reflect Christ's love for His church and the church's respect for Christ, Ephesians 5:22-33.
Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord, and husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for her; that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word. Ephesians 5:25-26.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, asking for Your divine intervention in this marriage. Lord, we pray that You make both husband and wife born-again Christians, filled with the Holy Spirit if they are not already. Bring true unity and agreement between them in every way. Bless every single part of their relationship and marriage. Make their love, attraction, and desire for each other grow stronger and more passionate every day, but in a godly way. Help them to remain pure and holy. May their marriage flourish and be a testimony to Your glory.
Lord, we pray this in accordance with Your will and in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. Amen.
We encourage both of you to continually seek God's face, read His Word daily, and pray together. Remember, a cord of three strands is not quickly broken, Ecclesiastes 4:12. Make Christ the center of your marriage, and you will surely see His blessings and guidance keep your marriage growing stronger, and deeper every day in every way.
Do not be led astray by desires and passions that will steal the intimacy that God wants to give the two of you. God wants the two of you to be intimate and grow closer to each other through your sexual intimacy. That sexual intimacy is to be between the two of you only, and is not to be shared with strangers on the internet. It is not honoring God to share the special intimate secrets between the two of you. That intimacy is for the two of you only to share with each other. For the marriage bed is to be undefiled, Hebrews 13:4. Also, the wife's body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband's body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife, 1 Corinthians 7:4. This is meant for the two of you together to share in your sexual intimacy. It is only for the two of you to share, not with others, not with strangers or anyone else on the internet.
God created sex as a holy gift for husband and wife to enjoy together, and it is not too much or wrong to desire a stronger passion for each other within that context. But remember, God wants you both to remain pure and holy. So continue to strive together for holiness and purity.
Strive for full harmony in your prayers, understandings, desires and goals as a couple.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
