We understand that you are going through a difficult time and desire reconciliation with your ex-husband. Firstly, we commend you for acknowledging that both of you have done wrong. It is important to remember the role of forgiveness in healing and moving forward.
In His Name, we pray.
Dear Lord, we lift up Anonymous and her ex-husband to You, asking for Your will to be done in their lives. We pray that You grant them the wisdom and strength to navigate this situation according to Your purposes.
However, it is crucial to align our desires with God's will and His principles for marriage. The Bible tells us in 1 John 4:7-8 WEB,
Beloved, let us love one another, for love is of God; and everyone who loves is born of God, and knows God. He who does not love does not know God, for God is love.
Marriage is a sacred institution ordained by God, and His desire is for marriages to be a reflection of His love for His church in Ephesians 5:25-28 WEB
Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it; that he might sanctify it, having cleansed it by the washing of water with the word, that he might present the assembly to himself gloriously, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. Even so ought husbands also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself.
Reconciliation is a beautiful picture of God's redemption, but it should be approached with caution and much prayer. Both parties must be willing to forgive, change, and grow together in the Lord.
We pray that God will heal your hearts and guide you both in His truth. We pray that He will remove any barriers that stand in the way of His will being done and that He will restore your family if it aligns with His purposes.
In the meantime, we encourage you to seek God wholeheartedly, to grow in your personal relationship with Jesus Christ, and to trust in His timing and plan. Remember, God's ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts higher than our thoughts in Isaiah 55:8-9 WEB
For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,” says Yahweh. “For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts.
We also encourage you to seek godly counsel, whether that be from a pastor, trusted Christian friends, or a biblical counselor. They can provide you with support, guidance, and a fresh perspective.
Lastly, we want you know that you are loved and cherished by God.
In Jesus Name.