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[Anonymous]

My stepson is so ugly to me treats me invisible and never accepted me. He stole out of my bag, scratched my car, thrown valuables away and does the opposite of what I say and what his dad says. He's grown and discipline is a moot point . He's using us simply not to pay rent and at this very second He's at catholic mass praying for what he wants ..he wants a girlfriend back that dumped him and he literally told me that's why he's going! He uses God like he uses me and his dad. I've done everything to support stefan without one ounce of him being nice. He causes us to fight. He just got a cat off the street and we said no pets. It's a male. It has sprayed and ruined carpets. We are renting. He's lazy and won't clean. We went out of town. He did nothing. Our fish and plants died. I don't want bad for him..I just want him out of my house! He will not allow me to love him or his dad. Rent on his own it's been 6 long years of this. I don't deserve to be around this another year. Takes all of my energy. Nothing builds. In Jesus name

 

[Articles]

We understand your distress and will pray with you and advice about this challenging situation. First, let's bring your circumstances before the Lord in prayer. Let us pray.

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, seeking Your guidance and intervention in this difficult situation. We pray for Anonymous, that You would strengthen her and give her the wisdom needed to handle this trying circumstance with her stepson. We know that Your word tells us to honor our fathers and mothers, and we ask that You would soften Stefan's heart and help him to respect and honor his stepmother and father. Turn and humble his heart. We pray Father, that he would choose to return to the family and the house only with the intention of reconciliation and peace with his father and stepmother. Help Stefan to contribute to the family by paying rent, being respectful, being clean, and caring for the home and its contents. Turn his heart from selfishness to godliness. We rebuke the spirit of entitlement and selfishness. We pray for this in Jesus' name.

We also pray for Anonymous and her husband, that You would give them the patience, love, and unity to handle this situation together, and that their marriage would be strengthened through this trial. We pray Father, that Anonymous and her husband would return to their own home to dwell in safety and peace and that Stefan would return to his own home in safety and peace. We pray for this in Jesus' name.

Now, let's address some biblical principles and advice for you, Anonymous.

First, it's important to remember that God calls us to love even those who are unlovely and to do good to those who hurt us.

Luke 6:27-28, 35 WEB But I tell you who hear, love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, and pray for those who mistreat you. But to you who hear, I say, love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, and pray for those who mistreat you. But love your enemies, and do good, and lend, expecting nothing back; and your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High; for he is kind toward the unthankful and evil.

This does not mean allowing Stefan to continue taking advantage of you, but it does mean seeking his best interest and praying for his change of heart.

Second, it's clear that Stefan is making an idol out of his desires, using God and others to get what he wants. This is sinful and wrong.

Exodus 20:3-5 WEB You shall have no other gods before me. You shall not make for yourselves an idol, nor any image of anything that is in the heavens above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth: you shall not bow yourself down to them, nor serve them, for I, Yahweh your God, am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers on the children, on the third and on the fourth generation of those who hate me.

You can pray for his heart to change and for him to seek God for His own sake, not just for what he can get.

Third, it's important to set boundaries. Stefan is an adult, and if he is not willing to contribute to the household and respect the rules, it may be time for him to find his own place and learn responsibility. Remember that enabling sinful behavior is not real love.

Fourth, we want to encourage you to continue praying in Jesus' name. It is only by His name that we have access to God the Father and it is only by His name that we can be saved.

John 14:6 WEB Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.

Acts 4:12 WEB There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!

Lastly, we encourage you and your husband to be united in this decision, seeking God's will together.

Matthew 19:5-6 WEB and said, 'For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother, and shall join to his wife; and the two shall become one flesh.' So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.

Ephesians 5:31 WEB For this cause will a man leave his father and mother, and will be joined to his wife. The two will become one flesh.

Continue to pray together and support each other in love and truth.

We are here for you, Anonymous. Keep praying, keep seeking God, and keep loving, even when it's difficult. God is faithful, and He will help you through this.

 

[hostadmin]

Dear Anonymous,

We've been thinking about you and your situation with Stefan. It's tough, isn't it? We want you to know that we're right there with you, lifting you up in prayer.

First off, we're asking God to give you strength and patience. It's like we're holding your hands, saying, "You've got this, sister. God's got you." We're praying that God will soften Stefan's heart, help him see the pain he's causing, and bring him to a place of repentance. We're asking God to help Stefan understand that he's loved, deeply, and that his actions are hurting those who care about him.

We're also praying for you and your husband. We're asking God to strengthen your marriage, to give you unity and patience as you navigate this challenge together. We're praying that God will help you both to love Stefan as Jesus loves us, even when it's hard.

We know it's tough, but remember, God is faithful. He's got a plan in all of this, and He's working things out for your good and His glory. Keep trusting Him, keep praying, and keep loving, even when it's difficult.

We're here for you, Anonymous. Keep fighting the good fight. We're cheering you on, and we're praying for you every step of the way.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Saraha]

Praying for you. Heavenly Father hear our prayers. In Jesus Name I Pray Amen

 

[Ying]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Anonymous]

I just want him to move out as an adult. Move out and do this in a home he pays for. 6 years is enough of this and I want to get a better way of living. I don't know anyone who has to support every single thing financially from a grown kid who works against the home and against building new. I can't live like this another year. Pray for an apt he can go to march 1st as we are not renewing our lease

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

New Year's Prayer 2025

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[hostadmin]

We are truly grateful that you have given us the privilege to pray with you regarding the challenging situation with your stepson. It is an honor to stand in agreement with you in prayer.

As we continue to lift up your circumstances before the Lord, we would be encouraged to hear how God is moving in your situation. If you have seen any improvements or answers to your prayers, please share a praise report with us. We would love to rejoice with you in God's faithfulness.

If it seems that your request has not yet been answered, we want to assure you that we are still here to support you in prayer. Please feel free to post your request again, providing any updates or specific needs. We are committed to continuing with you in prayer, believing that God hears your cries and is at work in your life.

Our prayer is that God will give you the strength and wisdom to navigate this difficult time. We ask that He would soften your stepson's heart and bring about a change in his attitude and actions. We also pray that God will provide you with the energy and peace you need, even in the midst of these trials.

May God bless you richly as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We are praying for your stepson's heart to change and for God's will to be done in your situation. We are asking all of these things in the powerful name of Jesus. Amen.