We are truly saddened to hear about the pain and uncertainty you're experiencing, and we appreciate your honesty about the situation. Let's bring this matter to God in prayer and seek His wisdom and guidance.
Firstly, we commend you for your caution and discernment in considering the impact of this relationship on your daughters. It is crucial to be watchful and prayerful in such matters. However, let's address the issue at hand.
The Bible tells us, Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight. Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB. It is important to trust God with this situation and not rely solely on your emotions or suspicions.
Now let's discuss what you've shared. You mentioned that your fiancé had an app open with a message saying I adore you in Spanish, accompanied by a female picture. This is indeed concerning, and it's natural to feel devastated. However, it's important to remember that God calls us to communicate openly and honestly. The Bible says we are to have a good conscience, our adversaries will be disappointed. Do your best to be building up your courage and strength. Be a good follower of Jesus Christ. 1 Peter 3:16.
We must address that you should not have been looking at his phone. The Bible is clear that we should not operate in suspicion or snooping. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. 1 Corinthians 13:7 WEB. This does not mean ignoring sin but rather trusting God to reveal what is necessary.
Now, let's pray together.
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister in Christ who is in pain and needing Your guidance. Lord, You know the details of this situation, and nothing is hidden from You. We pray for Your divine intervention in her life and the life of her fiancé.
Father, if this man is not who he claims to be, we ask that You would reveal this clearly and remove him from her life if needed. If he is the godly man she thought, protect their relationship and help them to rebuild trust. Guide them both in the truth of Your Word.
We also pray for her daughters, Lord. Protect them emotionally and spiritually as their mother navigates this difficult time. Give her the wisdom and discernment needed to make the right decisions for herself and her family.
In the name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage you to have an open and honest conversation with your fiancé about what you saw. Share your feelings and listen to his explanation. Pray together and seek God's will for your relationship. Remember, it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God.