We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles your daughter ### is facing. Substance abuse and unresolved trauma are serious issues, and we commend you for reaching out for prayer and support. We trust in the power of Jesus Christ to break every chain and bring restoration.
Firstly, we want to address the spiritual warfare aspect you mentioned. It is important to remember that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the world rulers of this darkness, against spiritual wickedness in high places Ephesians 6:12 WEB. We need to put on the whole armor of God to stand against the wiles of the devil.
Regarding your daughter's fiancé, we want to emphasize the importance of being unequally yoked. The Bible tells us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB. We encourage you to pray for his God’s intervention, and for your daughter to court a faithful servant of Jesus who loves the LORD, and is His disciple. A husband should be sought after to help lead them spiritually and help strengthen a marriage relationship. Anything that hinders this should always be a strong point of consideration in any form of relationship.
We also want to address the mention of generational curses. According to the Bible, each person is responsible for their own actions. A son shall not suffer for the iniquity of the father, nor the father suffer for the iniquity of the son. The righteousness of the righteous shall be on him, and the wickedness of the wicked shall be on him Ezekiel 18:20 WEB. We encourage you to focus on your daughter's personal relationship with Jesus Christ and her own actions and repentance from sin. Additionally, you may want to spend time blessing her and praying for her relationship with a future husband. This should be a positive and uplifting time for her spiritual development.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up ###. Lord, we know that life full of abundance, forgiveness and grace is Your plan for ###. We rebuke addictions in the Name of Jesus Christ. Break every chain of bondage in her life. Help her gain freedom from the past trauma and actual substance dependency. Help her overcome addiction and the devastating effects it has on all aspects of life. Have mercy on her and heal her broken heart. We pray for her comfort and a closer walk with the Comforter, the Holy Spirit of God. We pray that she would come to experience renewing transformational knowledge of Jesus and He would save her from the fire. Place holy boundaries to guard her. LORD, heal and unite her. In Jesus mighty name.
Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, make your requests known to God Philippians 4:6 WEB.