We understand your desire for a deeper and more meaningful connection. However we must let the Scriptures speak to situations. First, let us clarify that the blessings and answers to our prayers are given not because we demand in a flurry of words saying the same thing repeatedly. We must be careful to understand that God is not a vending machine where we put in some words or prayers and get what we want. We are to approach him in humility and reverence, submitting to His will. True love and commitment are built on mutual respect, trust, and a shared faith in Jesus Christ.
It's important to live according to God's Word at all times, including in relationships:
1 John 5:14: This is the confidence which we have before him, that, if we ask anything according to his will, he listens to us.
However some things mentioned in your prayer request is not according to His Will. Your request suggests a very strong emotional and romantic focus on another person not your spouse, and we must address the issue of being unequally yoked that is to not be in a romantic close relationship with someone who is not a Christain believer, as well as potential idolatry in putting any idols before the eternal and holy God :
2 Cor 6:11 Therefore, “come out from among them, and be separate”, Your focus should be on GOD and not completely given to another who is not your Christain spouse. Relationships should work toward marriage and engagement, not just longer relationships.
Malachi 2 14: : Yet you say, “For what reason?” Because the LORD hath been witness between thee and the wife of thy youth, against whom thou hast dealt treacherously: yet is she thy companion, and the wife of thy covenant,. The man who loves him wife loves himself.An actual marriage between a Man and a Woman affirms this. God hath witnessed it.
Nonetheless, we remind you to always put Christ at the center of your life and if you do look for a relationship: Marriage should be held in honor among all, and the bed undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers Hebrew 13:4. Your bond with another must be holy and your entreaties too.
Romantic attraction, intimacy, and closeness toward another are appropriate in a marriage setting towards a spouse not just anyone. While living in sin by being sexually active should be rebuked and addressed. That Should not even be among you. There absolutely should not be any hint of it shown in the biblical Christian life of True Believers.
When each of us walks in obedience to Jesus Christ and seeks His will, we ensure that we follow the principles of living uprightly in relationship to Him and not skipping any instructions. It is Jesus is the vine, and we are the brances. A branch cannot bear fruit for itself, without the vine. You being the branch. Therefore we must follow Christs lead and his instructions, totally and absolutely to be a true Believer. God will judge the immorality of every person, and everyone made in his image.
To prioritize our heart's desires above His in prayer, however, is not. Longing for true love and commitment is quite natural. Jesus said to love our heavenly father in heaven first and others a distant second and ourselves last. Put love for GOD first and foremost which is also above the love for the lady you have expressed. It is GOD your heavenly father who Will fill you with joy righteousness, and true love in Jesus name.
We pray for reconciliation and forgiveness in Jesus name also, even if it is repentance for asking for anything not according to His will or not in His Name but rather to not have an idol being loved above GOD.
As you pursue a healthy, God-honoring relationship that aligns with Biblical principles, James 4:8 summons: Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners; and purify your hearts, you double minded". For those who fight to be pure mentally, physically, mentally, and spiritually for Him.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You on behalf of the one who submitted this prayer request, asking for Your guidance and wisdom. Help them to seek Your will and to honor You in all their relationships by living righteously. We ask only in Jesus Name. We pray for His mercy, healing, and forgiveness right now, trusting in Your promises In Jesus' Name. We ask this Believing, and Asking,for the grace, and forgiveness that if we have anything to be forgiven Lord, in your mercy, forgive us those things and have mercy on us all... In Jesus name. Amen.
Lord please remind us to always remember right now and evermore that it is we are all and only saved by Your Salvation which comes by the name of Christ Jesus, alone. In Jesus name Alone we have access to the Eternal Father and Our Heavenly Father by Adoption, thanks to the Blood of Our Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.!