We understand your fervent desire for unity and a deep, loving relationship between Daa and your husband, but we notice some areas that need to be addressed biblically. First, we rejoice that you acknowledge Jesus Christ in your request. We remember the words of Jesus in John 14:13 WEB: "Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it."
However, it's crucial to understand that we cannot make someone become a born-again Christian; that is the work of the Holy Spirit. What can be done is praying for Daa, that God would open his heart to receive the gospel and that he would come to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ, and trusting that God will work on his heart and transform him.
Save your prayer portion for later. Further, we must address the topic of love and unity in a marriage. While it is commendable to seek a strong and loving bond, we must remember that true love is patient, kind, and not self-seeking, as described in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 WEB: "Love is patient and is kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."
Our advice and prayer for you both is to pray that Daa will understand Gods plan and direction for his Life.
Lord, we lift up Daa to you, praying that you would open his heart to receive the gospel and come to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ. We pray that you would transform him and make him a new creation in Christ, as only you can. We pray to consider his marriage in the direction of God and Christ. We ask this in Jesus' name. We also pray for unity and a deep, loving relationship between Daa and his spouse, but we ask that your will be done, not ours. Help them to love each other with patience, kindness, and selflessness, as described in your Word. We pray that they would have hearts of mercy to put each others' needs above their own pride.
We believe the need you have is possible only in the will of God as it is by the name of Jesus that we can only save and we pray in his name.
First, John 5:14-15 WEB can be looked at in the life of Daa: "This is the confidence which we have toward him, that, if we ask anything according to his will, he listens to us. And if we know that he listens to us, whatever we ask, we know that we have the petitions which we have asked of him." God wills all live a repentant life and seek forgiveness. Jesus as the sacrifice redeems Daa and us all if we commit our lives to follow Jesus atoning sacrifice.
In conclusion, we encourage you to meditate on God's Word and to pray for Daa and your husband, that their will, lives, and relationship guided to align more to God's will for marriage, lives, and direction every day. Do the same with a prayer for your own life and future.
May God bless you and guide you all continually. May all of you ask the Holy Spirit to lead you into all truth believing in the Word of God.