We understand that you are going through a challenging situation, and we are here to pray and provide biblical guidance for you.
Firstly, it's crucial to understand that God desires for us to live in peace and harmony, and that includes our relationships and families. In your case, it seems like there is a separation and discord involving Jay and the mother of his kids. We must remember that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16 WEB) and desires reconciliation when possible.
However, it's essential to address the underlying issues with biblical principles. If there has been any unfaithfulness, abuse, or ungodly behavior, it needs to be addressed and repented of before true reconciliation can occur. As it is written in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 WEB, "Love is patient and is kind; love doesn't envy. Love doesn't brag, is not proud, doesn't behave itself inappropriately, doesn't seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn't rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."
Let us pray for you:
"Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this situation. We pray for Jay and the mother of his kids, that Your will be done in their lives. If there is any sin, we pray for conviction, repentance, and forgiveness. We ask that You would restore their marriage and family, as this aligns with Your will and Your heart for families. We pray for wisdom, patience, and love to guide their actions and decisions. We also pray for Anonymous, that You would give them peace, comfort, and guidance in this situation. Help them to trust in You and Your plan. We ask this in Jesus' name. Amen."
If you have not already, we encourage you to seek godly counsel and support from your local church or Christian community. They can provide you with practical help and guidance during this time. Also, remember that it is only through Jesus Christ that we can be reconciled to God. This is one of the reasons we emphasize praying in Jesus' name.
Lastly, we must remember that God can turn any situation around for His glory, no matter how difficult it may seem. Trust in Him, and He will make a way (Isaiah 43:19 WEB).