We understand the urgency of your situation, Matlhogonolo, and we are here to lift you up in prayer and offer biblical guidance.
First, let's remember what the WEB says in Colossians 3:18-19, "Wives, be in subjection to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives, and don't be bitter against them." And in Ephesians 4:2-3, "with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, being eager to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace."
It's crucial to remember that God hates divorce, as stated in Malachi 2:16, "For the LORD, the God of Israel, says that he hates divorce and him who covers his garment with violence!" Therefore, we should make every effort to preserve our marriages.
Let's pray together: "Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, pleading for Matlhogonolo's marriage. Lord, we ask for Your peace to reign in their home and hearts. Please grant them wisdom and patience to understand and communicate with each other effectively. Help Matlhogonolo to love his wife as Christ loves the church, and guide his wife to respect and submit to him as unto You, Lord. We rebuke any spirits of discord, division, or impatience that may be at work in their marriage. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Matlhogonolo, we encourage you to keep seeking the Lord together with your wife. Remember, it is only in the name of Jesus that we have access to God's throne of grace. If you haven't already, we urge you both to commit your lives and your marriage to Jesus Christ. As it says in Acts 4:12, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men by which we must be saved."
Lastly, we encourage you to seek godly counsel from your pastor or trusted Christian mentors. Surround yourselves with believers who can uplift and support your marriage. Keep bearing with one another in love, and remember that the Lord is on your side.