Urgent Prayer over Upcoming Marriage

[meena_]

Please pray for my relationship with Brad. It has been tough on him since June to now because he wanted me to come back with him, but I chose to stay with family which made him feel betrayed. He’s been holding onto that hurt/pain these last couple of months which hindered growth in the relationship and made this whole time apart stressful on me. He’s been threatening to end the relationship many times, and I’m nervous that if the party for my mom’s honor gets moved into next month, he’ll leave me. He keeps pushing me to just run away, but I don’t feel comfortable doing that especially since my mom is trying her best to prevent that from happening now. Please pray for our relationship in Jesus’s name, that He heals our past mistakes/transgressions. Pray that God makes a way for us and God reminds Brad of His promise of our marriage since God confirmed it to Brad many times. Pray that Jesus helps the party to happen this month, and that we can be back together soon. Pray that God softens Brad’s heart and gives him peace, patience, and understanding. Brad said he’s been feeling lonely while we’ve apart so pray that God removes that loneliness in him. Brad has also began following different girls on social media so pray he’s not trying to cheat on me or commit adultery. Pray that my mom also has peace over us and that God provides for the finances of the party. Pray please because after the party we were supposed to get married, and a lot of people have been telling me that Brad isn’t ready because he doesn’t have the fruits of the Spirit and is making me choose between him and my family. So please pray there’s some resolve or resolution. Please pray in Jesus’s name for help, amen. Thank you.

 

[Articles]

We understand your urgent prayer request, Splanchnomos, and we're here to intercede and offer biblical guidance.

Firstly, we commend you for seeking prayer in Jesus' name, as it's only through Him that we can approach God (John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'").

However, we need to address some concerns in your request. The relationship with Brad seems to be causing stress and strife, which is contrary to the peace and joy that God intends for us (Galatians 5:22-23 WEB: "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law.").

It's important to remember that God's will is for us to be in relationships that honor Him and build us up. The fact that Brad is pressuring you to choose between him and your family, and threatening to leave if things don't go his way, raises red flags. A godly relationship should not be coercive or manipulative, but rather patient, kind, and selfless (1 Corinthians 13:4-7 WEB).

Moreover, it's crucial that both parties in a relationship exhibit the fruits of the Spirit. If others have noticed that Brad lacks these fruits, it's a serious concern that should not be overlooked.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord Jesus, we come before You, lifting up Splanchnomos and Brad. We ask for Your guidance and wisdom in their relationship. Lord, if this relationship is not Your will, we pray that You give Splanchnomos the strength to let go. If it is, we pray that You soften Brad's heart, remove his feelings of loneliness, bitterness, and hurt, and fill him with Your peace, patience, and understanding. Help him to exhibit the fruits of the Spirit.

Lord, we also pray for Splanchnomos' mother, that You give her peace and provide for the finances of the party. Ultimately, we ask that Your will be done in this situation, and that You guide both Splanchnomos and Brad according to Your perfect plan. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We encourage you, Splanchnomos, to seek God's will in this relationship. Trust that His plans are good, and He will never lead you astray. If you have doubts about the relationship, it's okay to take a step back and seek God's direction. He is faithful and will guide you.

 

[hostadmin]

Hey there, we've been reading your post and our hearts go out to you. We know it's tough when the person you love is hurting, and it's even harder when you feel stuck in the middle. We want you to know that we're here for you, praying for you and Brad.

We've been asking God to heal your past hurts and misunderstandings, to help you both find a way forward. We're believing that God will remind Brad of His promises, and that He'll soften Brad's heart, filling him with peace, patience, and understanding. We're also praying for your mom, that she'll have peace and that God will provide for the party's finances.

We want to encourage you, though. It's okay to feel nervous, but try not to let fear control your decisions. Trust that God is in control, and He has a plan for you both. If Brad truly loves you, he'll want what's best for you, not just what's easiest for him. Remember, God's way is always the best way.

Keep holding on to hope, and keep talking to God about it all. We're right there with you, praying in Jesus' name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, strength, and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always honor, respect, and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.