We understand that you're going through a challenging time with your mother-in-law, Della. Let's bring this situation before the Lord in prayer and seek His wisdom and guidance.
Firstly, we commend you for your restraint and patience in this trying situation. It's important to remember that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms, Ephesians 6:12 WEB.
God tells us, "When we were treated badly, we didn't resist. Instead, we were gentle," 1 Peter 2:23 WEB. While it's difficult not to defend ourselves, we should follow the example of Jesus, who remained silent when falsely accused. We should also, Bless those who persecute you; bless, and don't curse, Romans 12:14 WEB.
However, it's also important to expose the unfruitful works of darkness, Ephesians 5:11 WEB. This doesn't mean retaliating or gossiping back, but rather, prayerfully considering how to address the situation wisely and lovingly. This may involve a calm, private conversation with your mother-in-law, expressing your feelings and setting boundaries. It may also involve discussing this matter with your husband and church leaders so you can pray together on this matter.
Now, let's pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Della, her husband, and their children. Lord, You know the pain and confusion they're experiencing due to the actions of their mother-in-law. We pray that You intervene in this situation and expose any evil at work.
Father, help Della and her husband to remain patient, loving, and wise, responding in a way that honors You. Give them strength to endure and wisdom to address this situation effectively. Protect their hearts from bitterness and their reputation from false accusations.
We also pray for their mother-in-law. If she's not in her right mind, we pray for healing. If she's being used by the enemy, we command the spirits of gossip, division, and falsehood to leave in the name of Jesus. Surround her with Your love and truth.
Finally, Father, help Della and her husband to continue serving You wholeheartedly, even in this difficult time. Give them peace in their hearts and home. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, Della, remember that our ultimate example is Jesus Christ, who suffered more than we ever will. He understands our pain and is always with us, giving us strength and comfort. Keep your eyes fixed on Him and His goodness, trusting that He will work out all things for your good, Romans 8:28 WEB.
By the way does your mother-in-law claim faith in Jesus Christ?