We join with you, Anonymous, in lifting up your daughter and the young man she loves, standing in agreement for their relationship to glorify God. We appreciate that you have prayed in Jesus Name and acknowledge that it is only in His name that we can boldly approach the throne of grace.
Firstly, it is truly wonderful to have a God to call upon especially in Jesus Christ. So, to say In the name of Jesus or some other variation acknowledges the ravine that existed between man and God. This unsurpassable chasm has been crossed through Jesus, the God man, who as God became man to be a substitute for man and as man represented man to God. So, Jesus Christ and what He has done by perfectly obeying God and taking the penalty for sin on Himself has paved a way to God where there formerly was no way. Ephesians 2:17-18 (WEB), "He came and preached peace to you who were far off and to those who were near. For through him we both have our access in one Spirit to the Father." Also, 1 Timothy 2:5-6 (WEB), " For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, who gave himself as a ransom for all; the testimony in its own times," this supports why we pray in Jesus Name. It is only through Him that we have access to God. There is no other way, Acts 4:10-12 (WEB) "be it known to you all, and to all the people of Israel, that in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, whom you crucified, whom God raised from the dead, in him does this man stand here before you whole. He is 'the stone which was regarded as worthless by you, the builders, which has become the head of the corner.' There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
Moving along, we pray that your daughter and this young man will learn to communicate effectively, remembering that God calls us to speak the truth in love, Ephesians 4:15 (WEB), "but speaking truth in love, we may grow up in all things into him, who is the head, Christ." Power is in words, whether negative or positive, and they must use their words to build each other up, not tear down, Ephesians 4:29 (WEB), "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear."
In every relationship, especially one that is Christ centered the goal should always be to become more like Jesus. Love and preference towards one another is key. Philippians 2:3-8 (WEB), "Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others. Let this mind be in you all, which was also in Christ Jesus: who, existing in the form of God, didn't consider equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied himself, taking the form of a servant. Having become in the likeness of men and being found in the shape of a man, humbled himself, becoming obedient to the point of death, yes, the death of the cross."
Pursuing marriage should always be a journey of growth, Islamic culture calls it courtship. If the desire is to please God, then having a godly marriage should be the goal courtship. We need to be equally yoked with other Believers 2 Corinthians 6:14 (WEB)"Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?". Anything outside of that is dangerous for conflict and dissension in a relationship. If they do become married, God will call both of them to be loving and understanding, even in times of conflict. We should not behave in a way that will cause our spouse to become bitter towards us Colossians 3:19 (WEB), "Husbands, love your wives, and don't be bitter against them." Nor should our response be to push away or shut down emotionally. Instead, we should strive to bear with each other and forgive as the Lord forgives us Colossians 3:13 (WEB),"bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do."
We must be careful to resist the tendency to spiral into despair and worry, remembering that God calls us to trust in Him, exchange our worries for His peace, trusting that He will keep our hearts and minds with a strong confidence in Him, Philippians 4:6-7 (WEB),"In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."
Together, we pray that your daughter and this young man will remember Gods promises for their relationship, that they will remain steadfast in their commitment to protect each other's hearts, and that God will intervene and make a way where there seems to be no way, 1 Corinthians 1:27 (WEB)"but God chose the foolish things of the world that he might put to shame those who are wise. God chose the weak things of the world, that he might put to shame the things that are strong."
Please make sure to rebuke your daughter, the young man and anyone involved in any sexual contact outside of marriage. Sexual intimacy is only permissible within marriage and is to be treasured and kept only for marriage. It is forbidden in all other contexts. 1 Corinthians 6:18 (WEB)"Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body." Sexual immorality also causes the Holy Spirit to not be with you, 1 Corinthians 6:19 (WEB), "Or don't you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own,"
Finally, we encourage both of them to fix their eyes on Jesus Christ and remember who they are in Him to navigate this time of conflict while remaining sinless, strong and healthy rather than pushing away or giving up.
Most importantly, we pray that both young individuals be genuinely saved if they are truly not in Christ. As receiving Jesus and believing upon Him is the first step in becoming a Christian. We know that God hears our prayers and counsels our requests that align with His will and purposes for our lives. We are trusting that His perfect will, will be revealed in their lives and glorify Him! Romans 8:28-29 (WEB), "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose. For whom he foreknew, he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers."