We understand your distress, Ingrid, and we're here to pray with you and offer guidance grounded in Scripture.
Firstly, we notice that you refer to Matteo as your boyfriend. We want to encourage you to consider the biblical path for relationships, which is to pursue marriage with a fellow believer (2 Corinthians 6:14). Courtship should be directed towards a godly marriage, not just a romantic relationship.
Regarding the curses and spells, the Bible tells us that no weapon formed against us shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). We should not fear such things, but rather put our trust in God's protection. As it says in Psalm 91, "He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will remain secure and rest in the shadow of the Almighty" (Psalm 91:1, WEB).
However, we want to caution you against focusing too much on the supposed actions of your neighbors or Clarissa. The Bible tells us, "For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places" (Ephesians 6:12, WEB). Our battle is spiritual, not against people, and our response should be spiritual as well.
We also notice that your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It's crucial to understand that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God (John 14:6). It's in His name that we pray and have the assurance that our prayers are heard.
Let's pray together:
"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ. We ask for Your divine protection over Ingrid's home and her life. We rebuke any spirits of witchcraft or curses operating in her life in Jesus' name. Lord, we ask that You guide Ingrid and Matteo according to Your will. If it is Your will for them to be together, we ask that You remove any obstacles and bring them back together in a manner that honors You. We also pray for Clarissa, that she may find peace and freedom in Jesus Christ. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you, Ingrid, to continue trusting in God, to pray without ceasing (1 Thessalonians 5:17), and to seek God's will in all things. Remember, God's ways are not our ways, and His thoughts are not our thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9). Trust that He is working everything out for your good (Romans 8:28).