We understand your urgent plea for prayer and we stand with you, lifting your requests to God in the name of Jesus Christ.
Firstly, we commend you for praying in the name of Jesus Christ, as it is through Him that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'"
We pray for your husband, whom you've referred to as "aa", that God will draw him close and make him a born-again Christian. May the Holy Spirit work in his heart, revealing the love and salvation found in Jesus Christ. As Peter said in Acts 4:12 (WEB), "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men by which we must be saved."
We also pray for your marriage, that it will grow stronger, deeper, and flourish every day. As it is written in Ecclesiastes 4:12 (WEB), "Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken." May God be that third cord in your marriage, strengthening and binding you together.
However, we must address that the intense focus on physical and emotional desires, while understandable, should not overshadow the spiritual foundation of your marriage. We encourage you both to desire and pursue God first, as He promises to fulfill our needs and desires according to His will (Matthew 6:33).
We also note your concern about other women in your husband's life. While we pray for the severing of any inappropriate ties, we must remind you that God calls us to trust Him and to forgive as He has forgiven us (Ephesians 4:32). Jealousy and control are not fruits of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23), and we encourage you to surrender these feelings to God.
Lastly, we pray that both of you will grow in your love for each other as God intends, reflecting the love that Christ has for the Church (Ephesians 5:25-28). May your marriage be a testimony of God's love and faithfulness.
Lord, we lift up this marriage to You. Strengthen their bond, draw "aa" closer to You, and help them both to walk in Your ways. May their love for each other grow as they pursue You first. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.