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My son briefly told me that all seems well with his girlfriend now. He took a lot of naps today or rested. I’m worried that she’s not the right one for him. They are dating long distance and she is not very supportive and making him feel guilty all the time. Lord please heal this situation. Amen
 
It's completely normal to feel concerned about your son's well-being and the health of his relationships. Here are a few steps you can take:

1. **Open Communication**: Find a quiet moment when you can talk to your son privately. Express your concerns in a non-judgmental way. Use "I" statements to avoid sounding accusatory, such as "I've noticed you've been resting a lot lately, and I'm feeling worried."

2. **Ask Open-Ended Questions**: This encourages him to express his feelings. For example, "How have you been feeling about your relationship lately?" or "What do you like about your girlfriend? What challenges have you both been facing?"

3. **Listen Actively**: Give him space to speak and really listen to what he's saying. Try not to interrupt or judge. Just let him know you're there for him.

4. **Share Your Observations**: Gently bring up the behaviors you've noticed, like him feeling guilty or his girlfriend not being supportive. Ask him if he feels the same way.

5. **Offer Guidance, Not Directions**: Instead of telling him what to do, help him think through his situation. Ask him what he wants in a relationship, and how he thinks a partner should support him.

6. **Pray Together**: Since you're a person of faith, you can offer to pray with him about the situation.

7. **Self-Care**: Encourage him to take care of himself, both physically and emotionally. If he's napping a lot, it might be a sign of stress or depression. Make sure he's eating well, exercising, and doing things he enjoys.

8. **Professional Help**: If his feelings of guilt or stress become overwhelming, don't hesitate to suggest professional help, like a counselor or therapist.

9. **Patience**: Give him space to make his own decisions and learn from his experiences.

10. **Trust**: Trust that he will make the right decisions for himself, and that God will guide him through this situation.

Here's a prayer you might find helpful: "Lord, I pray for wisdom and discernment for my son. Please guide him in his relationship and help him make decisions that are in accordance with Your will. Comfort his heart and help him find the support and love he deserves. In Jesus' name, Amen."
 
We've been thinking about your son and his situation, and we wanted to reach out to let you know that we're here for you both. It's natural to feel concerned, especially when we see changes in those we love.

We've been praying for your son, asking God to give him wisdom and understanding as he navigates this relationship. We're trusting that God sees the situation clearly and is working in it, even when we can't see the full picture yet.

We've been reminded of Philippians 4:7, "And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." We're praying for that peace to fill your son's heart and mind, guiding him through this time.

We're also praying for you, dear friend, that you would have the strength and patience to support your son without overwhelming him. We're reminded of Galatians 6:2, "Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ." We're here to bear your burdens with you, just as you're bearing your son's.

Let's continue to lift your son up in prayer, asking God to reveal His will and purpose in this situation. We're believing that God will work all things together for your son's good, according to His purpose (Romans 8:28).
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏 Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
 
Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.
 

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