Update: Urgent Work Situation Feedback

[Dularr]

I wanted to update you guys on my situation. I just got out of a meeting with my supervisor and I was told that 5 of my coworkers were “uncomfortable” with me because my apologies were not “genuine” ( earlier this week I was told to send a gift, note, and an email to each person to make amends; this was suggested because I’m the school counselor and I should be the “bigger person”). Even though I disagreed, I still did what Jesus would want me to do, so I turned the other cheek. I didn’t realize that all 5 people are friends outside of work so when they got the notes, emails, and gifts they went to my supervisor to say that the gesture felt “fake” which is why I got pulled aside today. I really don’t know what to do because I’m being told that my job is at risk even though I have no issues with students, families, or the teaching staff. I did what I was told and now I feel defeated since I wasn’t the one who suggested these ideas, I followed the suggestions my boss had. Please pray that I don’t get fired and if those people will not like me at least pray they leave me alone to do my job because I came here to help children in a low-income area, not to fight with student aids.

 

[Articles]

Dularr, we understand your distress and want to lift you up in prayer and provide biblical guidance during this challenging time. Firstly, we commend you for following Jesus' teaching and turning the other cheek. Do not overlook how Jesus responded to the attacks against him until he submitted to the will of God to die on the cross ultimately. Before that, Jesus saw the attacks against him as blessings as he knew it was only occuring because he was obeying the Father. It is important to also remember that you are not necessarily being told to have genuine friends at work. That is not why you are there. You are there to provide a specific service to children and it is important to let your light shine to everyone that you can.

In Colossians 3:23 WEB it says Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord, and not for men.

The critique from your coworkers may seem insurmountably ominous if believed. However, simply resolve yourself to do the best to serve them as well as the children and families you counsel and God will take care of everything else.

Respond with a genuine effort to do whatever to be a servant to them and the rest of the work God sent you there to do and God will always cause everyone to see and respect your work or even grant you favor that will dismay your enemies.

The Bible also tells us But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you, Matthew 5:44.

Remember, it is not about them liking you; it is about you being a blessing to them and doing your job to the best of your ability. God sees your heart and your efforts. We will agree with you to place the burden upon God to fix this and rescue you from any manipulative or destructive plans that could affect your employment.

But Peter said, Silver and gold have I none, but what I have, that I give you. In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, get up and walk! Then Peter, taking him by the right hand, raised him up. Immediately, his feet and his ankle bones received strength. Acts 3:6 WEB.

Also, you do not need to live off the validation of each coworker. It is enough that your boss told you what to do and you did it. Jesus gives you what you need to do the job he sent you there to do, and you can only look to Jesus for all that he gives you to accomplish it. If you want to have a healthy level of friendship with anyone, it is possible without shouting it from the rooftops, but keep your focus on the work.

Otherwise, vindicate yourself. Simply reply to your perцы by email with all others in copy. Restate your case calmly, and nothing else. Simply provide dates, times, and events calmly and how you did all that you were told. Do not use the email to fight, complain, have a bad attitude, or seek the pity of others. Refuse to engage friends, family, facebook, twitter, or even their responses unless absolutely necessary. Simply refute, restate your case, and continue to do your work. It does not have to be perfect. You just need to stand up for yourself biblically. If you do nothing, then yes the work of the enemy will continue to torment you. But, if you score the victory here, then it will be hard for the enemy to attack you just like it is hard for a grown man to go and beat up a child.

Father, we lift up Dularr to you, praying for your divine intervention in this situation. We ask that you soften the hearts of these coworkers if it is possible and you will allow. Arrest the plans of manipulation or destruction. Lead Dularr into new and meaningful fellowship against the devil that wants to isolate him. Even if the coworkers choose to not like him, we pray that they would leave him alone to do his job in peace or be so turned around one day that they would believe in your name and glory of Jesus. We ask these things only through Jesus' baptism in the Holy Spirit.

To please everyone is not possible, nor is it your calling in life. There are several examples of that in the bible. If you end up losing this job, know that since you have humbled yourself in this scenario you have gained ground in your relationship with your wife and possibly other coworkers may also begin to hold you in high regard. You have gained experience in working with low income students and adults that will prove valuable in your next position if it turns out losing your position is the the tactic and will of God.

But if, when you do well, and suffer for it, you take it patiently, this is commendable with God. For to this you were called, because Christ also suffered for us, leaving you an example, that you should follow his steps, 1 Peter 2:20 WEB.

 

[hostadmin]

Hey there,

We're here for you too, just like you're here for the kids you serve. It's tough when it feels like we're not appreciated, but remember, we're not called to make everyone happy, just to love and serve as Jesus did.

It's easy to get caught up in what others think, but God sees your heart. He knows how hard you're working, how genuine your apologies were, and how you're just trying to do right by everyone. Let's trust that He's got this situation in His hands.

Let's pray together: "Dear Lord, we ask you to give Dularr strength and peace in this situation. Help him to continue to serve the kids and families with all his heart, just as you've called him to do. We ask that you soften the hearts of those who are against him, and guide their thoughts and actions. Help Dularr to stand firm in his faith and trust in you, no matter what happens. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[Lori Ann]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Saraha]

Praying for you. Heavenly Father hear our prayers. In Jesus Name I Pray Amen

 

[Biskin]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Wyekul]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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