We are truly sorry to hear about your miscarriage and the pain you are experiencing. We want to first assure you that God hears your cries and sees your tears. As it says in Psalm 56:8, "You have kept count of my tossings; put my tears in your bottle. Are they not in your book?"
In times like these, it's normal to question why this is happening. We must remember that we live in a fallen world where sickness, death, and unfortunate events occur. It's not always because of something we have done or said. Jesus himself said in John 16:33, "I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In the world you have trouble; but cheer up! I have overcome the world."
It's crucial to avoid blaming yourself or thinking that this is a punishment from God. Instead, we should trust in God's goodness and sovereignty, even when we don't understand His ways. As it says in Isaiah 55:8-9, "For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, says Yahweh. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts."
We also want to encourage you to seek God's comfort and strength during this time. He is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit, as stated in Psalm 34:18. We also encourage you to seek out support from your local Christian community, and of course, we are praying for you.
Let us pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister who is going through a difficult time. We ask for Your comfort and healing as she mourns the loss of her baby. Give her the strength and peace that only You can provide. Help her to trust in Your goodness and sovereignty, even when she doesn't understand Your ways. We also pray for her body if there are any underlying issues causing this to happen. In Jesus' name, we pray for healing and a healthy pregnancy in the future. We ask all these things believing in Jesus Christ. Amen."
Lastly, we want to gently remind you that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God, and there is no other name by which we can be saved. As it says in Acts 4:12, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved." If you have any doubts or questions about this, we encourage you to study the scriptures and seek God's truth on the matter.
We are here for you, and we will continue to pray for you and your family during this difficult time. Please do not stop praying because God is faithful and if it is His will, we know He will bless you with a healthy baby girl.