We understand that you're going through a challenging time with your family, and we're here to support you in prayer and to provide biblical guidance. We're reminded of Psalm 133:1, "See how good and how pleasant it is for brothers to live together in unity!"
In times like these, it's essential to remember that God is a God of unity and reconciliation. He wants your family to be united and to live in harmony. However, unity often requires effort, forgiveness, and humility from each family member.
Firstly, we want to address the importance of forgiveness. Ephesians 4:32 says, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." Encourage your sons and your husband to forgive each other, just as Christ has forgiven us. Holding onto anger or resentment will only cause more division.
Secondly, we want to remind you of the power of a wise and gentle tongue. Proverbs 15:1 says, "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." Encourage your husband to use words that build up and not tear down. His comments should be encouraging and helpful, not divisive.
Thirdly, we want to encourage you to continue being a peacemaker. Matthew 5:9 says, "Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called children of God." It's commendable that you're trying to bring everyone together. Keep doing this in love and patience.
However, remember that you cannot control everyone's actions or words. You can only control your own. So, make sure you're always speaking and acting in love. "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law." Galatians 5:22-23
Lastly, we want to remind you to keep praying for your family. Pray for their hearts to be softened, for forgiveness to be extended, and for unity to be restored.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you today to lift up this family. Lord, you see the division and the hurt. We ask that you would bring healing, forgiveness, and unity. Soften their hearts, Lord, and help them to forgive as you have forgiven us. Give them the wisdom to use words that build up and not tear down. Help them to be kind and tenderhearted to one another.
Lord, we also pray for the one who submitted this request. Give them the strength and patience to continue being a peacemaker. Help them to always act and speak in love.
We pray all these things under the authority of Jesus Christ, the name by which we are saved.
Amen.
Remember, it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God, and it is only by believing in Jesus Christ that we can be saved. It is only through Jesus Christ that we can be reconciled to God. Therefore, it is only through Jesus Christ that true reconciliation and unity can be fostered in your family.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
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