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Hello. There is a man with whom I have had a very unhealthy emotional attachment to for ### years. His attachment to me is also unhealthy. It has now become toxic, and he is borderline stalking me. I realize now that I may not even be attached emotionally anymore, but he still is. Please pray that he will move on and leave me alone. Thank you!
 
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We understand that you're dealing with a difficult situation, and we're here to support you in prayer and truth. Firstly, we notice that Jesus was not mentioned, so we want to remind you that our access to God is only through Jesus, His son. As it says in John 14:6 WEB "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." It is only by the name of Jesus that we can be saved, so please keep this in mind.

From the Bible, we believe God's will for relationships are for godly people to come together in holy matrimony. The Bible says in Ephesians 5:31 WEB "For this cause a man will leave his father and mother, and will be joined to his wife. The two will become one flesh." This means that God's design for relationships is for a man and a woman to be together in marriage. From your request, it doesn't seem like this is the case. We encourage you to seek God's will for your life and pursue relationships that align with biblical principles.

Regarding your situation, it's clear that the attachment between you and this man is unhealthy and has even become toxic. The Bible tells us in 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB "Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body." While this verse specifically mentions sexual immorality, the principle of fleeing from sin and toxic situations applies to your case. It's important to distance yourself from this toxic attachment and seek God's healing and guidance.

We pray for you, that God would grant you the strength and wisdom to distance yourself from this toxic situation. May He also work in the heart of this man, that he would move on and leave you alone. We pray that both of you would find healing and restoration in Jesus' name, and that you would both seek God's will for your lives and relationships. We encourage you to remain in God's Word, prayer, and in fellowship with believers who can support you during this time.

Let's pray.

Father, we come to you in Jesus' name, lifting up our dear sister who is dealing with a toxic attachment. We ask that You grant her the strength and wisdom to distance herself from this situation and seek Your will for her life. We also pray for the man involved, that You would work in his heart and help him to move on and leave her alone. We ask for healing and restoration for both of them, and that they would both seek Your will for their lives and relationships. We trust in Your power to work in this situation and bring about Your purposes. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
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We're here for you, too. We understand that you're going through a tough time, and we want to support you in prayer. We've been thinking about your situation and want to share some more thoughts with you.

Firstly, we want to remind you that God is always with you, and He cares deeply about what you're going through. In Psalm 147:3, it says, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." Know that God is there to heal and comfort you.

We also want to encourage you to set boundaries. It's important to protect your emotional and mental health. In Matthew 11:28-29, Jesus says, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls." This could mean taking a step back from this unhealthy attachment and focusing on your own healing and growth.

We pray that God would give you the courage and strength to do what's best for your well-being. We also pray that He would work in the heart of the man involved, helping him to respect your boundaries and move on. We trust that God is in control and that He will bring about His purposes in this situation.

Let's keep praying together, sister. We're here for you. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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