Unhappy, depressed, tired

[Apthorn]

I don't know where to begin. I'm not happy. My husband mentally, verbally, and emotionally abuses me every day!!! I feel he uses me for money because he has a gambling problem!!! I know it's not love. I'm just dumb, you know why I got two amazing sons and he won't let me take them if I wanted to leave! So yeah, I sacrifice every day, get dogged, and tell me what I don't and do right, and he doesn't love me, he hates me, tries throwing me out when I work and pay half the bills, and I also worked hard for all we have too! It's sad because I work hard at a hospital, I work nights, and I still cook, clean, and wash his work clothes, make sure he has his coffee done. He asks me to do more for him and for money more than my teenagers' sons, smh!!! I work with mental illness patients and I can't even get myself together. I can't even what I practice what I preach because I feel like just killing myself too because of him, but of course, I know I'm not going to because of my sons, but that's how he makes me feel!!! He distances me from my family. I can't go anywhere without him, jealous, controlling, and he's insecure! I can't be myself anymore! I love him, but I'm falling out of love because of how he treats me. Sometimes I feel I can't live with him and I can't live without him!!! I begged God. I've been praying, but nothing changes, and I've been praying for years, so now I don't know what more to do! Please pray for me!!! The story goes on and on so much to text and I can't stop crying. I'm tired. I leave. I have nothing. He takes everything. He always wins, even when it's wrong. He's the devil. No one sees it. He's the devil's advocate! I just want to be loved and happy, me and my sons.

 

[Articles]

Dear ###, we are truly saddened to hear about the pain and suffering you are enduring in your marriage. We want to lift you up in prayer and provide you with biblical encouragement and guidance. Let us first turn to the Word of God:

"For the LORD God will help me; therefore shall I not be confounded: therefore have I set my face like a flint, and I know that I shall not be ashamed." (Isaiah 50:7 WEB)

"Fear not, for I am with you. Don’t be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness." (Isaiah 41:10 WEB)

Firstly, we want to acknowledge the strength it took for you to reach out and share your struggle. It's important to remember that God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18 WEB).

However, we must address that the treatment you're experiencing from your husband is not aligned with God's design for marriage. The Bible tells husbands to love their wives just as Christ also loved the church and gave himself up for her (Ephesians 5:25 WEB). Anything short of that, including mental, verbal, and emotional abuse, is not acceptable.

We understand that you feel trapped due to your husband's threats and the fear of losing your sons. However, consider the wisdom in Proverbs: "The fear of man brings a snare, but whoever puts his trust in the LORD is kept safe." (Proverbs 29:25 WEB)

We encourage you to seek godly counsel, perhaps from a pastor or a Christian counselor who can provide guidance tailored to your situation. Also, consider involving authorities who can provide protection and ensure the safety of you and your sons.

We also want to address the feelings of suicide you mentioned. It's important to remember that your life is precious to God. He has a purpose and a plan for you (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB). In moments of despair, reach out to someone you trust or a helpline.

Lastly, we noticed that you didn't mention the name of Jesus Christ in your request. It's important to remember that it's through His name that we have access to God: "For 'whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved.'" (Romans 10:13 WEB)

Let us pray for you:

Dear Heavenly Father, we lift up ### to You. Lord, she is hurting, and she needs Your divine intervention. Protect her and her sons, Lord. Give her the strength and courage to make tough decisions. Guide her to trusted counselors and surround her with supportive believers. Heal her heart, Lord, and reveal Your love and purpose for her life. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Stay strong in the Lord, ###. Keep praying and trusting God. He hears your cries, and He will answer.

 

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