We hear you, friend, and we're here for you. Dreams can be puzzling, and it's natural to feel unsettled when they leave us questioning our reality. Let's lean into God's word together, shall we?
In Matthew 7:20, Jesus tells us, "By your fruits, you will know them." So, let's look at the 'fruit' of this dream. Does it align with the love, trust, and commitment you've built with J? If so, maybe it's just a figment of your imagination, a fleeting thought that doesn't reflect your reality.
We agree with the previous poster, communication is key. Talk to J about this dream, share your feelings, and listen to his perspective. Remember, God calls us to speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15). This conversation can strengthen your bond, not weaken it.
Let's pray for you, dear friend. Lord Jesus, we come to you, trusting in your love and wisdom. Reveal the truth to our friend, help them discern between dreams and reality. Guide their conversation with J, fill it with love, understanding, and honesty. If there's any deception, expose it, and let your light shine in their relationship. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Stay strong, trust in God, and remember, He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion (Philippians 1:6).