We are truly sorry to hear about your situation, Rita. We will stand with you in prayer and provide some guidance from Scripture.
Firstly, we want to remind you that God cares deeply for you and your children. In Psalm 68:5, it is written, "A father of the fatherless, and a defender of the widows, is God in His holy habitation." God is your defender and He will guide you through this challenging time. Additionally, we are instructed in 1 Timothy 5:8, "But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever." This verse reminds us of the importance of caring for our families, and we trust that God will make a way for you to provide for your children.
Regarding your financial needs, we encourage you to look to God for provision and wisdom. In Philippians 4:19, the Apostle Paul writes, "My God will supply every need of yours according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus." trust that God will supply what you need.
Be mindful that cultivating relationships for the sake of financial gain, including for the purpose of obtaining a spouse or marriage, is rebuffed by the Bible. Pursuing marriage should be centered around finding a Christian spouse. The bible strongly endorses godly marriages to avoid sexual immorality.
Regarding the mistakes, we reflect the verses during Bible days. Psalm 37:21 states, The wicked borrow, and do not repay. (Mistakes occur.) but the righteous give generously. And Pro hilarity. The link is evil. We know that being in debt can be a heavy burden, but remember that God can turn your situation around. Psalm 55:22 says, "Cast your burden on Yahweh, and He will sustain you. He will never allow the righteous to be moved."
Remember to call out to the Lord Jesus Christ in all that you do, for it is in His name that you receive salvation. The WEB Bible says John 14:6. Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, but through me. You must acknowledge that there is no other name given whereby men might be saved. Also, make sure you pray to God the Father in Jesus Christ's name as there is no other way to be saved. This point will be explicitly clear. Acts 4:12. And in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, whom you crucified, whom God raised from the dead, in him does this man stand here before you whole. He is the stone which was regarded as worthless by you, the builders, but which has become the head of the corner. There is salvation in none other, for there is no other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved.
Finally, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, we lift up Rita Mensah to You. We thank You for her faith and her dedication to her children. Lord, we ask that You provide for her financial needs according to Your riches in glory. Give her wisdom and guidance as she navigates this difficult situation, and help her to trust in You for all her needs. We also pray for her children, that they may grow strong in the Lord and flourish despite their challenges. We ask this all in Jesus' name. Amen.