Trying to get over someone, or maybe the relationship should be healed?

[Goghysk]

I don't want to repeat myself over and over again. Those that have read my earlier prayer request posts, might remember me talking about my life story, how I got into being a 2nd shift janitor for a school, loneliness and lack of Church fellowship. You may also recall that I recently wrote about struggling with jealousy and envy. Currently I'm a Male, 45 and single. As a normal rule women don't pay any attention to me. So if a "single" woman gives me some attention it leaves an emotional mark in me. My Dad always told me that a teacher wouldn't want to date a janitor. I don't know if that is true or false statement, but if it is true, then I think that means teachers think they are better than a janitor. In 2015 a new teacher joined the school. She announced that she is a prayer warrior. I thought to myself this a little odd. I know that we are a secular school that happens to have a lot Church going people in it, but still you just stand up introduce yourself and tell everyone you are a prayer warrior? I thought to myself, I think I better stay away from this person. Something about the joyful personality scares me, and she might hurt me one day. Guess what I was right! She hurt me a couple of times. But it was worse then that, she started a friendship with me, and teased me too. As a teacher she had this kind of power, and I didn't know what to think or what to do about it. I just tried to uphold the friend side of things. I'm also scared of my boss. Whenever I accidentally upset a teacher, they can tell my boss, and my boss can call me in and give me a talking too. This has happened to me several times. Which also makes me a bit scared of the teachers. After 9 years of her being on my route, she began to feel called to missions. Currently she had to fly a long long ways away, and for 3 months she is in training for it. 2 months she will be over seas. This woman has somehow got my emotions all mixed up. On one hand, I should be happy for her. On the other hand I'm jealous of her. I find myself frustrated with old memories, both good and bad. To make things even worse she wrote a long Christian book which I bought to support her, and read it. I learned a lot about her that I never knew, because she kept silent about it. Like I said I suffer from mixed emotions. As I look back over the past 9 years, I wonder why did Jesus allow us to be together at work. I wouldn't of picked her as a person to hang out with. Yet she was on my cleaning route, and that kinda forced us together. Also being in the same building together forced us to interact as well. Did Jesus have a point in all of this? Did the conversations we had, happen because there was something God wanted us to learn from each other? I think she is out of my life for good now. But why am I feeling the pain that I'm feeling? How come that doesn't just go away? Lord knows I have prayed about it for a long time... I'm NOT over weight, yet I have always had high blood pressure. I take medication to keep it down. Lately the meds needs adjusted. Monday I see the doctor about it. Anyways any stress that is in my life, makes it go up. I think the emotions that I feel about her, has been causing my blood pressure to go up. Sometime in the near future, I want to post a detailed story on my Church history. So that people can better understand what my family has been through and why. Then you can pray about that too.

 

[Articles]

We understand your struggle with feelings of jealousy, loneliness, and the emotional pain caused by the situation with the teacher at your school. Let us come together and bring your concerns before the Lord, seeking His wisdom and comfort.

Firstly, we want to reassure you that God has a purpose in every circumstance. Romans 8:28 tells us, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." Even the difficult and confusing situations can be used by God for our growth and His glory.

However, it’s important to examine our hearts and align our thoughts with God's Word. The jealousy and envy you're experiencing are natural emotions, but they can also be harmful if not addressed. Galatians 5:20 lists jealousy as one of the acts of the flesh, warning us against it. We must remember that God has a unique plan and purpose for each of us, and comparing ourselves to others can lead us astray from His will.

Regarding your interactions with the teacher, it’s crucial to maintain godly boundaries. The Bible instructs us to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18) and avoid situations that could lead to sin. While friendship and mutual respect are important, be cautious of any romantic feelings that might be inappropriate or distracting from your focus on God.

We pray for you, Goghysk, that God would heal your heart and give you peace. May He show you the purpose behind your interactions with this teacher and help you trust Him with every detail of your life. We ask that the Lord would strengthen your faith and provide you with godly fellowship to overcome loneliness.

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Goghysk. Lord, You know the struggles he is facing—the pain, the jealousy, and the loneliness. We ask for Your healing touch on his heart. Help him to understand Your purpose in his life and to trust that You are working all things for his good.

We pray for peace in his mind and soul, especially regarding the situation with the teacher. Help him to see her through Your eyes and to forgive any hurt she may have caused. Guide him in his interactions with others, giving him wisdom to maintain godly relationships.

We also pray for his physical health, specifically his blood pressure. May the doctors find the right treatment, and may he experience Your healing power. In Jesus’ name, we pray for restored health and a calming of his emotions.

Lord, surround Goghysk with Your love and guidance. Lead him to a vibrant and supportive Christian community where he can grow in faith and fellowship. In Jesus’ precious name, we pray. Amen.

Stay strong in the Lord, Goghysk. Remember, God is faithful and will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5). Keep seeking Him, and He will guide your steps.

 

[hostadmin]

Hey there,

We've been thinking about you and the situation you're in. It's clear that you're going through a lot, and we want you to know that we're here for you. We understand that it can be tough when emotions are all mixed up, and it's hard to make sense of things. But remember, God is always there, even in the midst of the confusion.

We've been praying for you, that God would give you clarity and peace. We believe that He has a purpose in all of this, even if it's not clear to us right now. We're also praying for your physical health, that your doctor's appointment would go well and that you would find the right treatment for your blood pressure.

We want to encourage you to keep seeking God, to keep talking to Him about how you're feeling. He's always there to listen, and He wants to help you through this. We're also here for you, if you ever want to talk or need someone to listen.

Keep trusting in God, even when things are tough. He's got a plan, and He's working everything out for your good. We're believing that with you, and we're here to support you every step of the way.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Goghysk]

We understand your struggle with feelings of jealousy, loneliness, and the emotional pain caused by the situation with the teacher at your school. Let us come together and bring your concerns before the Lord, seeking His wisdom and comfort.

Firstly, we want to reassure you that God has a purpose in every circumstance. Romans 8:28 tells us, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." Even the difficult and confusing situations can be used by God for our growth and His glory.

However, it’s important to examine our hearts and align our thoughts with God's Word. The jealousy and envy you're experiencing are natural emotions, but they can also be harmful if not addressed. Galatians 5:20 lists jealousy as one of the acts of the flesh, warning us against it. We must remember that God has a unique plan and purpose for each of us, and comparing ourselves to others can lead us astray from His will.

Regarding your interactions with the teacher, it’s crucial to maintain godly boundaries. The Bible instructs us to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18) and avoid situations that could lead to sin. While friendship and mutual respect are important, be cautious of any romantic feelings that might be inappropriate or distracting from your focus on God.

We pray for you, Goghysk, that God would heal your heart and give you peace. May He show you the purpose behind your interactions with this teacher and help you trust Him with every detail of your life. We ask that the Lord would strengthen your faith and provide you with godly fellowship to overcome loneliness.

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Goghysk. Lord, You know the struggles he is facing—the pain, the jealousy, and the loneliness. We ask for Your healing touch on his heart. Help him to understand Your purpose in his life and to trust that You are working all things for his good.

We pray for peace in his mind and soul, especially regarding the situation with the teacher. Help him to see her through Your eyes and to forgive any hurt she may have caused. Guide him in his interactions with others, giving him wisdom to maintain godly relationships.

We also pray for his physical health, specifically his blood pressure. May the doctors find the right treatment, and may he experience Your healing power. In Jesus’ name, we pray for restored health and a calming of his emotions.

Lord, surround Goghysk with Your love and guidance. Lead him to a vibrant and supportive Christian community where he can grow in faith and fellowship. In Jesus’ precious name, we pray. Amen.

Stay strong in the Lord, Goghysk. Remember, God is faithful and will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5). Keep seeking Him, and He will guide your steps.

After reading her book, I think I understand some of her struggle. She is 44 years old, and doesn't have a husband or kids. I think that was partly causing her to act the way she did. I would be kind to her, but I wouldn't flirt back. At work this is was a bad situation to be in. I prayed in several ways over the years, and I even prayed that she would be removed from my life. That part of my praying seemed to work. Yet some odd connection between me and her was formed, and removing her, hurts almost as bad as having her in my life. It is like the pain is there regardless. I don't think she is feeling the pain I'm feeling. She got to move onto something better, and she has never had a shortage of friends and pastors for support.

 

[Goghysk]

Hey there,

We've been thinking about you and the situation you're in. It's clear that you're going through a lot, and we want you to know that we're here for you. We understand that it can be tough when emotions are all mixed up, and it's hard to make sense of things. But remember, God is always there, even in the midst of the confusion.

We've been praying for you, that God would give you clarity and peace. We believe that He has a purpose in all of this, even if it's not clear to us right now. We're also praying for your physical health, that your doctor's appointment would go well and that you would find the right treatment for your blood pressure.

We want to encourage you to keep seeking God, to keep talking to Him about how you're feeling. He's always there to listen, and He wants to help you through this. We're also here for you, if you ever want to talk or need someone to listen.

Keep trusting in God, even when things are tough. He's got a plan, and He's working everything out for your good. We're believing that with you, and we're here to support you every step of the way.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

I talk to God a lot a lot about it.

 

[Saraha]

Praying for you. Heavenly Father hear our prayers. In Jesus Name I Pray Amen

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(ESV)

Salvation: - And they said, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved, you and your household.” Acts 16:31(ESV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he said to me, “This is the word of the Lord to Zerubbabel: Not by might, nor by power, but by my Spirit, says the Lord of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(ESV)

Persecutions: - “But I say to you who hear, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you. Luke 6:27-28(ESV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)


sermons

 

[Goghysk]

I wasn't sure if I wanted to open up about this situation or not. Currently I am glad that I did! After you all prayed for me, my blood pressure went down some, and I started feeling a lot better about that situation. I know that it is in God's hands. I still would like to be completely emotionally healed to the point that this person isn't on my mind all the time... If God wants them on my mind so that I will continue to pray for them, that is ok, but I want to be at peace with it.