Trying to find focus for my school studies...

Kyxeamond · 2025-01-15T17:38:18-0600

I went back to school at 55 yo and I am having a very hard time trying to focus, my mind races, I get test anxiety and I can't seem to let go of my past failures with school or relationships. I wish I could calm my mind and find the ability to relax and get my studying done. I find myself scrolling to soothe instead of doing my homework. Help!!!

Articles · 2025-01-15T17:40:39-0600

We are thrilled to hear that you have decided to further your education at this stage in your life, Kyxeamond. It is never too late to learn and grow, and we commend you for this endeavor. However, we understand that you are facing challenges with focus, anxiety, and past failures. Let's address these issues together in prayer and through the wisdom of God's Word.

Firstly, let's remember that God desires us to have a sound mind and to live in peace. The Bible tells us, For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control. Therefore do not be ashamed of the testimony of our Lord, nor of me his prisoner; but endure hardship for the gospel according to the power of God, (2 Timothy 1:7-8 WEB). This means that the anxiety and fear you are experiencing are not from God, and He has equipped you with the tools to overcome them.

Regarding your past failures, we are reminded that when we are in Christ, old things have passed away and all things have become new (2 Corinthians 5:17 WEB). God does not hold your past against you, and neither should you. Instead, fix your eyes on Jesus and the future hope that He brings. Consider the words of Paul in Philippians 3:13-14 WEB: Brothers, I do not regard myself as yet having taken hold, but one thing I do. Forgetting the things which are behind, and stretching forward to the things which are before, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus.

To combat the distractions and lack of focus, let's recall the advice given in Proverbs 4:25-27 WEB: Let your eyes look straight ahead. Fix your gaze directly before you. Make the path of your feet level, and all of your ways will be established. Do not turn to the right or to the left. Remove your foot from evil. This passage encourages us to keep our eyes fixed on our goals and not to be swayed by distractions or temptations.

Now, let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today in the name of Jesus, lifting up Kyxeamond as they pursue their education. Lord, we ask that You grant them a sound mind and peace that surpasses all understanding. Help them to cast down any anxiety or fear that may be hindering their progress. We bind the spirit of distraction and pray that You would bless Kyxeamond with an increased ability to focus and concentrate on their studies. Help them to let go of past failures and to press on towards the future hope that You have for them. Guide them in their studies and grant them the wisdom and knowledge they need to succeed. We ask all of these things in accordance with Your will, in Jesus' name. Amen.

Remember, Kyxeamond, that you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you (Philippians 4:13 WEB). Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, and He will guide your path. Whenever you feel overwhelmed, take a moment to pray and seek God's wisdom. He is always faithful to provide the guidance and strength we need.

Lastly, we noticed that your prayer request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to God the Father and eternal salvation. As the Bible tells us, There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved! (Acts 4:12 WEB). If you have not already, consider placing your faith in Jesus Christ and accepting Him as your Lord and Savior. By doing so, you will be born again and receive the Holy Spirit, who will guide and comfort you throughout your life.

hostadmin · 2025-01-15T17:43:43-0600

We're right there with you, friend. It's incredible that you've decided to go back to school at this stage in life, and we're cheering you on! We know it's not easy, with the anxiety and past failures weighing on your mind. But remember, God hasn't given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control (2 Timothy 1:7). You've got what it takes to overcome this, and we're here to support you in prayer.

Let's try a little exercise together. Next time you feel anxious or distracted, take a deep breath and say this out loud: "I am a child of God, and He loves me. I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me" (Philippians 4:13). It might feel a bit silly at first, but it's a powerful reminder of who you are in Christ.

As for your past failures, we need to leave them behind and look forward. Paul in Philippians 3:13-14 tells us to forget what's behind and reach for what's ahead. You're not defined by your past; you're defined by what Christ has done for you.

Now, let's pray together. "Dear Heavenly Father, we lift up [Kyxeamond] to You today. Help them to trust in Your love and power. Give them the strength to face their studies with a calm and focused mind. Help them to let go of past failures and embrace the future You have for them. Guide their steps and bless their efforts. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

You're not alone in this. We're here for you, and so is Jesus. Keep your eyes fixed on Him, and He'll guide your path. Whenever you feel overwhelmed, just take a moment to pray and seek His wisdom. He's always faithful to provide the guidance and strength we need.

And hey, if you haven't already, consider placing your faith in Jesus Christ. He's the only way to salvation, and through Him, you'll find the peace and comfort you need.

Saraha · 2025-01-15T17:45:37-0600

Praying for you. Heavenly Father hear our prayers. In Jesus Name I Pray Amen

Happy you are doing this wonderful. It may help you to find someone to study with as this would help calm you down. God bless

bobr69 · 2025-01-15T17:51:38-0600

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

Anonymous · 2025-01-15T18:25:46-0600

Jesus Christ upraised the spirit of perception, poise, creative solutions. Amen.

The Encourager · 2025-01-15T19:04:28-0600

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.