Trouble..again..

[Palith]

I can tell my step mom went through my room. She does this when she gets a "feeling" so she says. But I really think that she just wants something to be upset at me for something. I know I did her wrong a year and a half ago, I've been making up for it though. I watch her son for days on end and do all his necessities that she doesn't want to do because she doesn't feel good or tired. Etc. She makes my dad hate me.. I feel like. I feel like he's under her control and when she goes crazy, like searching my room like a prison room she tells him stuff and flips it completely around from what the truth is. Even if I tell what really happened they hold my past against like that's who I am and I'll never change. She even told me that she thinks I can't change and prove her wrong. So God, I really need guidance on what to do. Where do I go from here? what's the right thing to do? I know there's a conversation coming up about what was in my room and how I'm selfish or never do right. I just want my life back God. I tired of living like I'm not a 15 year old girl. Please send some prayers. Amen.

 

[Articles]

Palith, we hear your struggle and we are with you in prayer. Let's bring your situation before God and seek His guidance together.

Firstly, it's important to remember what the Word of God says about honor and respect. In Ephesians 6:2-3 (WEB), we read, "Honor your father and mother, which is the first commandment with a promise, that it may be well with you, and you may live long on the earth."; and in Romans 12:18 (WEB), "If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men." Even in difficult situations, we are called to honor our parents and strive for peace.

However, it's also crucial to address the issue of false accusations and manipulation. In Proverbs 6:16-19 (WEB), God lists the things He hates, including "a false witness who speaks lies" and "one who sows discord among brothers." It's not godly behavior for your stepmother to twist the truth and cause division between you and your father.

Let's pray:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up ###'s situation. Lord, You see the struggles she's facing in her home. We pray for wisdom and discernment for ###, that she may know how to navigate this difficult situation (James 1:5). We pray that You would soften her stepmother's heart, that she may see the truth and stop causing division (Ezekiel 36:26). We also pray for ###'s father, that his eyes may be opened to the truth and that he would not be swayed by false accusations (1 John 4:6).

Lord, we ask that You would heal and restore their relationships, that there may be peace and unity in their home (Psalm 133:1). We pray that ### may continue to grow in You, learning to forgive and love even in difficult circumstances (Matthew 5:44). We ask all these things in Jesus' name, Amen."

###, we encourage you to continue to show love and respect to your stepmother, even when it's hard. Keep doing what is right and trust that God sees your efforts. Also, try to have an open and honest conversation with your father about your feelings. But remember, it's important to approach this situation with a spirit of humility and gentleness (Galatians 5:22-23).

Lastly, ###, we noticed that you didn't mention the name of Jesus in your prayer. It's only through His name that we have access to God's throne of grace (Hebrews 4:16). If you haven't already, we encourage you to put your faith in Jesus, believing that He died for your sins and rose again, so that you may have eternal life (Romans 10:9). This is the foundation of our relationship with God.

 

[hostadmin]

Hey there, we're here with you too, feeling your frustration and pain. We've been thinking about your situation and wanted to share some more thoughts with you.

First off, we know it's tough when it feels like no one believes you. It's like you're stuck in a storm and you're just trying to find a lifeboat. But remember, God sees you. He sees every tear, every struggle, and He's right there with you. In Psalm 34:18, it says, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." You're not alone, sweetie.

Now, we know your stepmom's behavior is hurting you and your relationship with your dad. It's like she's trying to control the narrative, twisting things to suit her. But we need to remember, truth always finds its way to the surface. It might take time, but it always does. Just keep being honest and transparent. As it says in Proverbs 12:17, "An honest witness tells the truth, but a false witness tells lies."

We also want to encourage you to keep loving and respecting your stepmom, even when it's hard. We know it's tough, but Jesus calls us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44). It's not about her deserving it, but about you being obedient to God's command. And remember, love doesn't mean you have to accept bad behavior. It's okay to set boundaries.

As for what's next, we think it might be good to have an open, calm conversation with your dad. Lay out the facts, express how you feel, and ask for his help. But be prepared, it might not go as you hope. If that happens, don't lose heart. Keep trusting God and keep trying.

Lastly, we want to remind you to keep praying. Keep crying out to God. He's there, listening, and He cares. And remember, Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life. Trust in Him, and you'll find peace and strength.

Keep holding on, dear one. We're praying for you.

 

[AngelCali]

Through Christ, I lift up this prayer request.

 

[Lizzymay]

Praying through Christ for this request.

 

[Felic]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

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