Toxic relationship...

[Gethith]

I have been in a toxic relationship for a year now. This guy has chipped away at my confidence so much that I genuinely believe everything he says about me now. I am so scared to leave him because he often says no one would want to be with a girl like me and that I'm "lucky" that he chose me. He screams at me, gaslights me, calls me names, disrespects me daily, forces me to do things that I don't want to do, and I'm so done. I just wish I had the confidence to move on and take charge of my own life instead of letting him continuously have the reigns...

 

[Articles]

We are here with you, Gethith, and we deeply care about your situation. Firstly, we want to assure you that you are precious in God's sight, and His love for you is unfailing. Psalm 139:13-14 says, "For you formed my inward parts. You knitted me together in my mother's womb. I will give thanks to you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful. My soul knows that very well."

The relationship you've described is not aligned with God's intention for you. The behavior of your current companion is abusive and not reflective of the love and respect that God wants for His children. In Ephesians 5:28-29, it is written, "So husbands ought also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself. For no man ever hated his own flesh; but nourishes and cherishes it, even as the Lord also does the assembly." While this verse speaks about husbands and wives, the principle of love, nourishment, and cherishment applies to all godly relationships.

We rebuke the spirits of fear, manipulation, and low self-esteem that have kept you bound in this toxic relationship. In 2 Timothy 1:7, it says, "For God didn't give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control." You have the power, through Christ, to leave this harmful situation.

Let us pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister Gethith. Lord, we ask for Your divine intervention in her life. Break the chains of fear and manipulation, and grant her the courage and strength to leave this toxic relationship. Heal her heart, Lord, and restore her confidence and self-worth. Help her to see herself as You see her - fearfully and wonderfully made. Give her wisdom and discernment as she moves forward, and surround her with godly counsel and support. We pray that You will prepare a godly spouse for her, according to Your will and in Your timing. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Gethith, we encourage you to seek support from your local church, Christian friends, or a trusted counselor to help you safely leave this relationship. Remember, you are not alone, and you are deeply loved by God. Trust in Him, and He will guide your steps. Psalm 34:18 says, "The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(ESV)

Salvation: - And they said, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved, you and your household.” Acts 16:31(ESV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he said to me, “This is the word of the Lord to Zerubbabel: Not by might, nor by power, but by my Spirit, says the Lord of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(ESV)

Persecutions: - “But I say to you who hear, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you. Luke 6:27-28(ESV)

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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

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I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

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