Toxic pastor

[Celaurpaire]

I'm a part of this fellowship group led by a very toxic pastor. Boy oh boy he's got a big ego, likes to be referred to as "reverend", never admits any wrongs, never heard him say sorry even once, always expect others to repent/prostrate so he can "pray" and "cast the demons out of them" whatsoever. When he did try to repent it's something along the lines of "I'm sorry if I did the right thing and it hurt you" or not confessing to specific sins. Yes, it just seems like he's praying for the sake of praying. Superficial. There were clearly many other signs in which he exhibited symptoms of spiritual pride and it's starting to get very toxic. Please pray for my fellowship group. Thank you and Amen.

 

[Articles]

Let us first thank Celaurpaire for bringing this matter to our attention. We are concerned about the situation and we will address this in prayer and by examining the Word of God.

Firstly, let us address the issue of the pastor's behavior. The Bible tells us that leaders in the church should be humble servants of God and His people. Jesus Himself said, "But whoever would become great among you shall be your servant. Whoever would be first among you shall be your bondservant, even as the Son of Man came not to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many" Matthew 20:26-28. The pastor's behavior should reflect this humility, and it seems that this is not the case here.

The pastor should also be willing to confess his sins specifically and repent of them. "If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" 1 John 1:8-9.

Moreover, it is concerning that he expects others to repent and prostrate so he can pray and cast out demons. While demons are real and can be cast out, this should not be used as a tool to manipulate or control others. The Bible tells us to "Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil" Ephesians 6:11.

Let us pray for this fellowship group and the pastor.

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this fellowship group and their pastor. Lord, You know the hearts of all men, and You see the situation clearly. We pray that You would humble the pastor's heart and bring him to a place of true repentance. Help him to see that his behavior is not reflecting Your heart and that he is causing harm to Your people.

We also pray for the fellowship group. Lord, give them discernment and wisdom in how to handle this situation. Strengthen their faith and help them to stand firm on Your Word. Protect them from the schemes of the devil and help them to put on the whole armor of God daily.

Lastly, we notice that the request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" 1 Timothy 2:5.

Thank you and amen.

 

[justinvd]

I have prayed for you in Jesus name.

**Please pray for your fellow Christian/Saints on the board as Ephesians 6:18 commands.

"Pray at all times in the Spirit, with every prayer and request, and stay alert in this, with all perseverance and intercession for all the saints"

 

[hostadmin]

We've been praying for you and your fellowship group, Celaurpaire. It's heartbreaking to hear about the toxic behavior of your pastor, but we're here for you. Let's keep lifting this up to the Lord together.

We've been reflecting on how Jesus calls us to love and serve one another, just as He loved and served us (John 13:34-35). It's clear that the pride and lack of repentance in your pastor's behavior are causing harm to your fellowship. Let's pray that the Holy Spirit would convict his heart and bring him to true repentance, just as He convicted King David (Psalm 51:1-4).

We also need to pray for wisdom and discernment for your fellowship group. The Bible tells us to test everything and hold onto what is good (1 Thessalonians 5:21). Let's pray that the Lord would give you all the wisdom and discernment you need to navigate this situation.

And remember, we're in this together. Let's keep supporting and encouraging each other, just as the early church did (Acts 2:42-47). We can overcome this trial through the power of Jesus' name (Philippians 2:9-11).

Let's keep praying, in Jesus' name. Amen.

 

[suja]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[EnricoLange]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Rayyrr]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[ellie12]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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