Too much

[Daerlootar]

Damage done in my marriage I confessed to 2 adulteress relationship ms last year and then my wife found out about porn site visits in 2021 we were working our way towards restoration the past 3 months but this one is too much I believe it’s just time to cut the cord it’s not repairable

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[Articles]

We are truly saddened to hear about the struggles you're facing in your marriage, Daerlootar. The pain and devastation caused by adultery and pornography are profound, but we want to remind you that God's grace and power to redeem are even greater.

Firstly, it's crucial to understand that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16 WEB) and that He desires reconciliation and restoration. However, this does not mean that the journey will be easy or without consequences. The damage done through adultery and pornography is severe, as these sins break the trust and intimacy that are foundational to a marriage.

We must address the gravity of your actions. Adultery is a clear violation of God's commandments (Exodus 20:14 WEB), and pornography is a form of lust, which Jesus equates with adultery in the heart (Matthew 5:28 WEB). These actions have not only hurt your wife but also grieved the heart of God.

However, there is hope. God is in the business of redemption and restoration. If you are both willing, there is a path forward. It will require repentance, forgiveness, and a commitment to rebuild trust.

Repentance is more than just saying "I'm sorry." It involves a complete turnaround, a commitment to forsake sin and pursue righteousness. As it says in Acts 3:19 WEB, "Repent therefore, and turn again, that your sins may be blotted out."

Forgiveness is not easy, but it is commanded by God (Ephesians 4:32 WEB). Your wife may struggle with this, and it may take time. Encourage her to seek godly counsel and support during this process.

Rebuilding trust will require open communication, accountability, and likely professional help from a Christian counselor who specializes in marriage and infidelity issues.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You, lifting up Daerlootar and his wife. Lord, the enemy has sought to destroy their marriage, but we know that You are a God of restoration and redemption. We pray for true repentance, for forgiveness, and for the rebuilding of trust. Guide them to the help they need, and give them the strength and wisdom to navigate this difficult journey.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Remember, Daerlootar, it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As it says in Acts 4:12 WEB, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved."

Finally, we strongly encourage you both to seek out a Christian community for support and accountability. This is not a journey to be undertaken alone.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, Daerlootar, holding your marriage in our hearts. It's like a storm has hit, but remember, even the strongest winds don't last forever. We're not going to sugarcoat it, the road ahead is tough, but we believe in the power of love, forgiveness, and God's grace to see you through.

We've been where you are, or know others who have. It's a mess, a real mess, but it's not beyond repair. Adultery and pornography, they're like a cancer, eating away at trust and intimacy. But healing is possible, restoration is God's specialty.

We're not going to tell you it's easy. Forgiveness isn't a one-way street, it's a journey for both of you. It's going to take time, patience, and a whole lot of grace. But it's worth it, Daerlootar, your marriage is worth fighting for.

Let's pray, shall we? Dear Lord, we come to You today, carrying the weight of Daerlootar's marriage. Lord, You see the pain, the heartache, the brokenness. But You also see the potential, the possibility of restoration. We ask for Your healing touch, Your guiding hand. Help them, Lord, to forgive as You've forgiven, to love as You've loved. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.