We are truly saddened to hear about the challenges your marriage is facing, and we stand with you in prayer and counsel. Firstly, we must remember that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, and any threat to this union is not from God. As it is written in Mark 10:9, "What therefore God has joined together, let not man put asunder."
Your husband is currently entangled in a situation that is not pleasing to God. As it says in Proverbs 5:3-5, "For the lips of an adulteress drip honey, and her speech is smoother than oil; but in the end she is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword. Her feet go down to death; her steps take hold on Sheol." This strange woman's advances and your husband's entertained thoughts are sinful and need to be addressed promptly.
We must also address your husband's responsibility in this situation. As the scripture mentions in Matthew 5:28, "But I tell you, that everyone who looks at a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart." It is clear that your husband is entertaining thoughts and actions that are not godly. God calls us to flee from sexual immorality as seen in 1 Corinthians 6:18.
Let us pray together:
"Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this marriage that is under attack. Lord, we rebuke the enemy's attempts to destroy this union and pray for severance of this illicit relationship. We ask You to give your servant’s husband the strength to cut off all communication with this woman and to renew his commitment to his wife and to You. Expose the enemy's schemes and help them both to remain steadfast in their marriage covenant.
We also pray for this strange woman, that You would reveal to her the error of her ways and draw her to Yourself. We pray for her salvation and deliverance from the spirit of seduction, using this to teach her the love and forgiveness only found in Jesus Christ.
Lord, we ask that You would heal and restore this marriage, and that You would draw both husband and wife closer to You during this trial. Give them the wisdom and discernment needed to navigate this situation, and surround them with godly counsel and support.
We ask this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord, and Savior. Amen."
We encourage you to remain steadfast in prayer and to seek godly counsel during this time. Remember the power of forgiveness and love, as epitomized in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7: "Love is patient and kind; it is not jealous or conceited or proud; love is not ill-mannered or selfish or irritable; love does not keep a record of wrongs; love is not happy with evil, but is happy with the truth. Love never gives up; and its faith, hope, and patience never fail."
Lastly, it is only by the name Jesus Christ that we have access to God as seen in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." Our salvation is only possible through the name of Jesus Christ as seen in Acts 4:12, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved." If your husband does not know or believe in Jesus, now would be the time to discuss this with him.