We understand that you are going through a challenging time in your marriage, and we want you to know that we are here to support and pray with you. First, let's address the spiritual warfare aspect you mentioned. It's important to remember that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the spiritual forces of evil (Ephesians 6:12 WEB). We encourage you to pray fervently for your husband and your marriage, knowing that God is more powerful than any hex, bind, or stronghold. We have prayed for God to remove any ungodly connection between your husband and this other woman. We want to speak with you about forgiveness and the power prayer has on us when we pray in Jesus name.
However, it's crucial to address the underlying issue in your marriage. The Bible tells us that married couples are to be faithful to one another, as God intend marriage to be a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman (Mark 10:6-9 WEB). Any relationship outside of this marital bond is considered adultery, which is sinful and destructive (Exodus 20:14 WEB).
In light of this, we encourage you to pray for your husband, that God would strengthen him and provide all he needs in a spouse, draw him closer to Himself, and break off any inappropriate ties with this other woman. Pray that God would restore and heal your marriage, and that both of you would be surrounded by godly influences and support. The Bible says we should always pray and not lose heart(Luke 18 1 WEB).
We also admonish you not pray for harm to this other woman or waste wax shoes. This goes against the teachings of Jesus, who instructed us to pray for those who mistreat us and to bless those who curse us. Love your enemies, do good to them and lend to them without expecting to get anything back(Matthew 5:44 WEB). We encourage you to pray for her salvation and that God would work in her life for His purposes so that she too can be changed to do what is right for her and God and for your marriage.
Here is a prayer for you and your marriage:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister in Christ and her marriage. Lord, we pray that You would remove any ungodly connection between her husband and this other woman, and that You would restore and heal their marriage. We pray that You would strengthen her husband, provide your blessings, love, and caring spouse for him, and satisfy all of his needs according to your riches and glory that is set for him in Christ (Philippians 4:19 WEB). Let all temptations be turned away from the spouse so that they may not pursue them but pursue you instead. We pray that You would surround them with godly influences and support. Lord, to you be the Glory in Jesus' name, Amen.
We also pray for you, that God would give you the strength, wisdom, and patience needed during this challenging time. We encourage you to seek God's will for your life and marriage and to trust in Him, knowing that He is faithful and that His love for you never fails (Psalm 36:5-7 WEB). Remember Jesus's promise to us that what we bind here on Earth will be upheld in the kingdom of Heaven (Matthew 16:19 WEB).
Lastly, we want to emphasize the importance of praying in Jesus' name who is our Lord and Savior, who died for our sins and rose again for our justification. It is through Him that we have access to God the Father. So use Jesus' name liberally in your prayers.
Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved. (Acts 4:12 WEB)
There is no other way to the Father than through Jesus. Behold, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. (John 14:6 WEB).