We are truly saddened to hear about the tragic loss of your Aunt Simi. In times like these, it's important to turn to God for comfort and understanding. We want to remind you that God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18 WEB).
Firstly, let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Tiolrogan and their family in this time of grief. Lord, we don't understand why these things happen, but we trust in Your sovereignty. We pray for the soul of Aunt Simi, that she would be at peace in Your presence. Comfort Tiolrogan and their family, Lord, and help them to cast all their cares on You, knowing that You care for them (1 Peter 5:7 WEB). Guide them through this difficult time and help them to trust in You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Tiolrogan, it's natural to want justice and understanding in situations like this, but remember what Romans 12:19 tells us, "Avenge not yourselves, beloved, but give place unto the wrath of God: for it is written, Vengeance belongeth unto me; I will recompense, saith the Lord." Trust that God knows the full story and that He will deal justly.
It's also important to remember that God's plan for us is not merely about our earthly lives, but about eternity. That's why it's crucial to have a relationship with Jesus Christ. If you haven't already, consider accepting Jesus as your Lord and Savior. As it is written in Romans 10:9 WEB, "that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved."
Regarding your Aunt Simi, we can find comfort in the fact that God is a just and merciful God. While suicide is a grave sin, we must also remember that God's mercy is boundless, and He alone knows the heart of each person.
Lastly, we encourage you to be patient with your family and Aunt Simi's family. Grief affects people differently, and it's possible that their actions are a result of their pain. Continue to love and support them, and remember the words of Galatians 6:2 WEB, "Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ."
If you ever need someone to talk to or pray with, know that we are here for you. May the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7 WEB).