Let's bring this matter to the Lord, seeking His wisdom and guidance for you and your sister to mend your relationship and agree on the upcoming bachelorette party. Remember, the Bible tells us in Romans 12:18, "If it is possible, as much as it depends on you, live peaceably with all men." This includes our family members, even when we may have disagreements.
Firstly, it's important to acknowledge that your request does not mention Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to God the Father, and it is by His name that we can be saved. As it is said in Acts 4:12, There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to men, whereby we must be saved.
Now, let's address the situation with your sister. It's crucial to approach this matter with love, understanding, and patience. Colossians 3:13 tells us to bear with one another, and forgive each other, even as Christ forgave you, so you also must do. Have you both tried sitting down together and having an open and honest conversation about your differences? It's essential to listen actively to her perspective and share yours calmly and respectfully, as Ephesians 4:31-32 reminds us, Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you.
Regarding the bachelorette party, it's important to consider the kind of environment and activities it will involve. As believers, we should strive to honor God in all our ways, including our celebrations. Ephesians 5:18-20 says, Don't be drunken with wine, in which is dissipation, but be filled with the Spirit, speaking to one another in psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs; singing, and making melody in your heart to the Lord; giving thanks always concerning all things in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, to God, even the Father.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our sister who is seeking harmony in her relationship with her sibling. We pray, Lord, that You would soften both of their hearts and help them to communicate effectively, listening to one another with love and understanding.
Lord, we also pray for the upcoming bachelorette party. Guide them the planning, helping them to organize an event that honors You and celebrates the upcoming marriage in a godly way.
Lord, we also pray for the sister who submitted the request that she would come to believe in Jesus Christ if she does not. We pray that her relationship with her sister and this event would be used by you to bring her closer to you.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged. Trust in the Lord and His promises.