We understand your heart's desires and we come before the Lord with you, Nilelth, seeking His will for your life and your family.
Firstly, we want to remind you that God has a unique purpose for each of us. As it is written in Ephesians 2:10 WEB, "For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared before that we would walk in them." We pray that the Lord will reveal His purpose for you, and that you will walk in His path.
Regarding your marital desires, we encourage you to seek a godly spouse, a man who loves and follows the Lord. Proverbs 18:22 WEB tells us, "Whoever finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh." We pray that the Lord will guide you to a man who will help you grow in your faith, and that your marriage will be a blessing to both of you. However, we must caution you against seeking a man based on status. The Bible warns us against valuing people based on worldly standards. Instead, seek a man who is humble, loves the Lord, and is filled with the Holy Spirit.
We also want to address your concern about attracting men below your status. We believe that the key is to focus on your relationship with the Lord. As you grow in Him, you will attract people who are also seeking Him. Remember, 1 Samuel 16:7 WEB says, "For man looks at the outward appearance, but Yahweh looks at the heart."
For your brothers, Chineye and Stephen, we pray that the Lord will bless their endeavors and provide for them according to His will. Remind them to trust in the Lord and His timing. Psalm 37:5 WEB says, "Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this."
For your mother's healing, we pray in accordance with James 5:14-15 WEB, "Is any among you sick? Let him call for the elders of the assembly, and let them pray over him, anointing him with oil in the name of the Lord, and the prayer of faith will heal him who is sick, and the Lord will raise him up. If he has committed sins, he will be forgiven."
Lastly, for your sister Amarachi, we pray that the Lord will forgive her mistakes and grant her His mercy and grace. Remember, Romans 8:28 WEB tells us, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose."
Finally, we noticed that your request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through Him that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB, "Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." We encourage you to believe in Jesus Christ and His saving grace.
Let us pray:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ. We lift up Nilelth and her family to You. Lord, reveal Your purpose for her life and guide her to a godly spouse. Help her to attract men who are seeking You. Lord, bless her brothers' endeavors and provide for them according to Your will. Heal her mother and grant her sister Your mercy and grace. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.