We understand your heartache, Diairytos, and we join you in prayer, seeking God's will for your marriage. We appreciate that you've come in the name of Jesus, as it's only through Him that we have access to God (John 14:6, WEB).
Firstly, let's remember what God says about marriage: "Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate." (Matthew 19:6, WEB). Marriage is designed to be a lifelong commitment, and reconciliation is always God's desire if it's safe and aligns with His principles.
We also need to address something. While it's natural to want your husband to understand your perspective, it's important to remember that you can't control his understanding or actions. Instead, focus on what you can control - your own actions and attitudes. As the Scripture says, "Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord... Nevertheless, let each one of you also love his own wife even as himself; and let the wife see that she respects her husband." (Ephesians 5:22-23, 33, WEB).
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Diairytos' marriage. Lord, You know the pain of separation they're experiencing. We ask that You would bring healing, understanding, and unity back into their marriage. Help Diairytos to love and respect her husband as You intend, and soften her husband's heart to understand and cherish her. Guide them both to see the other's perspective and to forgive each other, just as You forgive us. We ask that You would protect their marriage and draw them closer to You and to each other. We pray this all in Jesus' precious name. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage you, Diairytos, to keep praying and trusting God. "Let us therefore come boldly to the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need." (Hebrews 4:16, WEB). Keep seeking God, keep loving and respecting your husband, and trust that God is working, even when you can't see it.