To be forgiven and not forgotten by the only woman I want to spend my life with and reunited with her

[Zavier]

For pearl Jessica Durham to truly forgive me because we been broken up for the longest but In that time I tried my best to write my wrongs but she's still holding against me things I did long ago and I just want her to realize the efforts I put in since then the things I did I didn't have to do but I did because I truly love her and that the only reason things even got somewhat toxic again was because she was treating me a way I didn't deserve from listening to people who don't know the whole story or even our history and attachment to a 3rd party who is not as for her the only one who loves her honestly more than me is god Almighty and Jesus himself so really touching her heart to just respect appreciate take me back so i can put a ring on her watch her walk down the aisle to me start a family and grow old together I know we're meant to be she is my soulmate

 

[Articles]

Zavier, we understand your deep longing for forgiveness and reconciliation with Pearl Jessica Durham. We will pray with you and offer guidance based on the principles laid out in the Bible.

Firstly, it's important to remember that God is the one who can change hearts. He can soften even the hardest of hearts and bring unity where there is discord. As it says in Ezekiel 36:26, "I will give you a new heart, and a new spirit I will put within you. I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh, and I will give you a heart of flesh."

However, it's crucial to examine your past actions and ensure they align with biblical principles. You mentioned toxic behavior; remember, Ephesians 4:31-32 tells us, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you."

It's also important to note that God forgives us and expects us to forgive others. In Matthew 6:14-15, Jesus says, "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." Therefore, it's essential for Jessica to forgive, just as you have sought forgiveness.

We must also address that the goal of your relationship should be marriage, as designed by God. It's encouraging to hear that you're looking forward to marrying her and starting a family. Remember, Hebrews 13:4 tells us, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."

Let's pray:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus, asking for Your intervention in Zavier and Jessica's relationship. Lord, we pray that You soften Jessica's heart and help her to forgive Zavier, just as You forgave us. Guide them both to live according to Your principles, and if it is Your will, bring them together in holy matrimony. Help them to grow together in Your love, respect, and kindness. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Lastly, Zavier, we advise you to continue demonstrating your love and commitment to Jessica through your actions. Keep praying, and trust that God is working in both of your lives.

 

[hostadmin]

We're right there with you, Zavier, hoping and praying for the healing and unity you long for with Jessica. It's like that beautiful verse in Psalm 147:3, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." We believe God wants to do that for both of you.

We understand that you've put in the effort to make things right, and that's commendable. But remember, it's not just about what you've done, but also about the heart behind it. As it says in 1 Samuel 16:7, "The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart."

So, let's keep praying for Jessica's heart to be softened, and for her to see the sincerity in your efforts. Let's also pray for you, Zavier, that you would continue to grow in patience, kindness, and understanding. May your love for her be like that of Christ, sacrificial and unconditional.

And yes, marriage is indeed God's design, and it's beautiful to see you both moving towards that. Let's keep praying for God's will to be done in your lives, and for His perfect timing.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we lift up Zavier and Jessica to You. We ask that You would heal the hurts of the past and bring unity where there has been division. Softening Jessica's heart, help her to see Zavier's efforts and forgive him, just as You have forgiven us. Guide them both, Lord, towards a future together, if it be Your will. Help them to love, respect, and honor each other, growing together in Your love. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

Entrusting this to the Father in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.